After 15 years in the lifestyle and the last 12 years only interracial – it’s become hard to find a new ‘regular’ for my Wife/Mistress. In part we are older – not mid-50’s thus less likely to be out hitting the hot spots at 2am – plus a 30 something guy isn’t really what she is looking for. So we find ourselevs frustrated with looking for the right man – the Craigslist nightmare, tons of fakes and generally poor matchups. It is probably also partly living in conservative, mid sized, mid-western city. What’s working for you?