Trying to get into the lifestyle

I need advice on getting my wife into the cockold lifestyle.
We haven’t had sex for three years this is mostly due to a spinal cord injury

Stash, try Kasidie.com. It’s mostly for swingers but there are plenty of sections and groups for single men. I’ve had very good luck there.

Also try Ashley Madison, we have very good luck there. Men have to pay but women don’t, so her name and other info is not needed, and you’re less likely to get the idiots only looking for photos (though a few guys with more money than brains do make it on there, just weed them out). Since they have to pay for the membership and they also have to pay to send a message, your wife should be able to meet a good man there who is legitimately looking to fuck or date long term, a nice married woman. It’s a sight meant for cheating wives to pick up single or married men. Good luck

Oh God, sometimes I wish my wife would find out about my cuckold/hotwife fantasy that way – from my browser history or phone. It seems a lot of folks make the initial breakthrough that way and I’d love to hear other people’s experiences of that time wives/GFs first found out. How did she react initially/later?

Think it’s so incredibly hot…

My wife and I have been fantasizing it for a long time. She has agreed to look, but finding the right guy for her has been a challenge. She used to get so excited when fantasizing about another man! We have sex once, maybe twice in the last three years. She maybe weening me off having sex with her, not sure.