What is your big turn on to be a sub husband?

I achieve my satisfaction knowing she is pleased and well taken care of. This stage of our marriage evolved over time with Her taking more control to ensure her needs were met. We’re still partners, I am just submissive by nature to Her.

Hi Allegra,

Im naturally submissive and I think I attracted a naturally opposite person to me.
On our first date, as a sign of respect, I kissed and sucked my wife feet.
The relationship was pretty much set from then on!

Well, I’m newbie but…I, personally, get aroused when a woman gets aroused. And the idea of a woman being in charge of her sexually and being very frank and open about it, is a major turn-on. I’m not into timidness or possessive, weak women. Nor do I prefer being “owned” by a woman, but I certainly don’t want her to be beneath me either. I love a strong, dominant woman. And now that I’m becoming more attracted to both sexes, the vision of my wife and I sucking some big cock(s) and watching her take it in front of me – it gets me going at least. I’ve been rejected and passed up for “manlier” men plenty of times in the past, too. So that probably has something to do with it.

When she started telling a few of her closest friends what was going on.

it would be a great turn on when. Fleur would ask me to flush her birth control pills while she would tease my small penis in his chastity belt as she adds she will only let my small penis out when she is pregnant …

For me it’s control and humiliation. Her controls include: no masturbation, orgasm once monthly, $ and allowance, shaving cock and balls, maintaining healthy weight and exercise, last word on major decisions, chore list, chastity, collar, cleanup and hopefully cuckolding someday

For me it’s small penis humiliation. I love when my wife laughs and makes fun of my tiny dicklet. When she jokes with her friends infront of me about me being tiny holding up her pinky finger. Or when she compares my tiny penis to her bulls huge cock.

These days, I gained more pleasure knowing she is being properly taken care off and from watching her with other men, I get to see her in that perfect pinnacle of intense pleasure. They took her to places I could not, there size and stamina was far superior to mine. They lasted for as long as my wife wanted them to last, as she extracted every ounce of pleasure from her well-endowed lovers. Then I get to reclaim what is left of her and clean her up. Occasionally we have one on one fun but most of the time she takes charge, strap up and use me anyway she wants, nothing is off limits for my beloved. I am here for her, and her pleasure is my pleasure.

Mine is to turn every fear I have regarding inferiority, lack of masculinity, infidelity, etc. on its head to the point of not only do I no longer fear it, but craving it. And by “it” I mean admitting to myself and my wife that I’m not a “real” man and thus losing that level of respect, and also to become her cuckold.

I love the idea my first wife was attracted to a much younger manlier lover and regalled me with future plans including pregnancy

For me, Apart from the sex. How my wife’s friends treat my wife’s boyfriends in front of me. The way my wife looks up at him when he is speaking. so on and so forth.