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    • RedFrenchDoors
        July 3, 2014 at 2:16 pm
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        #11640

        Excellent contribution, cuckmatt. Successful execution always seems to have some challenges like finding a hotel that is reasonably priced but not too far away. Kudos to your hotwife for following through so well and to you for getting back into your chastity device to complete the evening with denial. It just would not have been as powerful of an experience if I were to read that you had the same privilege as her lover.

      • cuckmatt
          July 4, 2014 at 12:32 am
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          #11642

          Thanks RedFrenchDoors. In relation to the denial facet of our relationship, I feel I could go longer without any form of release and at this moment in time, I would love to be made to endure longer than our usual 3-4 weeks. As it happens though, my wife still thoroughly enjoys giving me my climax and currently has no plans to change this. Mainly because she likes her sex. Even with me!

           

          We were discussing “what ifs” last night and the main one was what if her old F-B was back on the scene more regularly? My wife said that she liked the idea of seeing him every 6-8 weeks or so but any more and the cracks may appear. She likes the guy on a personal level and feels she would develope deeper feelings for him instead of being able to control things and simply just use him for the great sex he offers.

          It’s early days for us though and her F-B is returning to Columbia for the foreseeable future, so we are going to return to regular D/s dynamic and hopefully, fate will present her with another opportunity for some infidelity and hopefully, I can participate in the whole thing to a greater extent.

        • Luvr
          Keymaster
            July 4, 2014 at 7:39 am
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            #11643

            Excellent job by you both; not just in the lifestyle experience, but also in sharing it here with the community. I’m not sure I agree with her methodology of controlling risk: if she’s aware of the potential for more frequent coupling to cause a deeper bond with him she is already a step ahead of the game. The idea is to ensure that your own bond strengthens in its unique ways(s) while theirs does. One way to do this is to ensure you have a role with them even if not all the time (should they see each other more often).

          • cuckmatt
              July 4, 2014 at 11:39 am
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              #11645

              Thanks Luvr for the words of advice and encouragement.  We both know it is very early days as far as our journey down this path is concerned and that we still have so much to learn and offer one and other.  Her old FB is out of the picture for sometime now, so in the meantime, we will continue our D/s relationship at the pace we found just before her coupling on Wednesday.  Steady but most definitely forwards in direction.

              My mind wants us to go down the road of the steady boyfriend but I know that that can only happen once my wife has filtered out a few bad eggs on the way.  I would prefer this route for security and safety reasons.  It may never happen that way and we will continue on the path that my wife wishes to go down.  That being one where we play the waiting game.  We wait for opportunities to present themselves and seize them as they come?  I am under no illusion now that my wife is very willing to enjoy the company of other men and in that respect, I am a cuckold husband.  The cuckolding just isn’t happening as often as some others experience.  Once again though, early days and as more time passes, we will converse more about where things are going, limits, rules, possible scenarios and their results etc.

              We are practicing various other facets to the lifestyle whilst we wait though.  The chastity, the orgasm control, edging, ruined orgasms, panty wearing and the occasional clean-up job. All of which are something that my wife, in comparison to 18 months ago, is much more willing and comfortable with.  Forward progress.

              As always, I will continue sharing our experiences on here as we develop things.  In the meantime, here is a link to my wife’s blog post that relates to Wednesdays experience.

               http://bellesgarden.blogspot.co.uk/2014/07/the-fuck-buddy-returns.html?spref=tw

            • RedFrenchDoors
                July 7, 2014 at 11:44 am
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                #11651

                Thanks cuckmatt for your continuous update. I appreciate following the growth of your experience and the richness of your reflections (“your” is plural, btw).

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