Progress
I’ve been working with b (and through him, with e) on ways to make her boyfriend feel more welcome and more comfortable in their marriage and home. The obvious benefit of this progression is the frequency and quality of their coupling can be increased, without taking e away from her cuckold and their son more often. The longterm goal of such integration is to fully embrace the cuckold lifestyle and welcome her lover into his role within the family; one where he becomes the natural leader when present. While not an overt Dom, he’s comfortable leading and taking his place as e’s only sexual partner.
Marital Bed Cuddle
If I calculate the time difference correctly, e and her boyfriend should be asleep together in the marital bed as I post this. Soon, however, b will have to get up and get ready for work as he goes in very early and will have to enter the bedroom quietly to get ready for his day. I know the sight of his pretty wife cuddled in the marital bed with her lover will be an image he relives in his mind all day today. Soon the couple will awaken and one will awaken the other with a single purpose in mind: coupling yet again to start the new day.
Integration
If things went as planned, one of the last things their son witnessed before bed was the three adults interacting as friends with e having embraced and kissed her boyfriend to welcome him in the home while b stood there, equally happy to welcome him into the home. This was important as it will only be e and her boyfriend home when their son arises this morning. It’s not the first time their son has seen/met e’s boyfriend, so he’s likely already quite ambivalent about the presence of another grown-up in the house given his parents’ relaxed, casual behavior concerning him.
Stepping Aside
For those of you who are logged in and have read the member’s only blog post I last made for e & b, you can appreciate b’s experience this morning when you understand that he’s not been inside his lovely wife for months now and if all goes well, all of 2013 will continue that way.
Can’t wait to hear from bmollaie on how it went and also what his emotions were like during the time e’s lover was there and what he felt like knowing their child will see e’s lover in the morning after he has gone to work.
Both are very committed to making this work in a safe fashion that will benefit the whole family.
It is fascinating following this couples journey. Hearing how far they can take it while feeling fulfilled and comfortable.
I would like to congratulate them on their success!
I remember very well the early days of our integration and I envy all of you for the exciting times to come. I certainly would not trade our lifestyle now for anything!
I hope that the lover will be comfortable with leading and will continue to lead with loving authority over the family. I hope that he develops a dominant attitude. There should be no doubt in the cuckolds mind, in the wife’s mind and in the sons mind that the lover is in control. Both the cuckold and the son should know that she is dressing to please her lover and they all need to get used to that. We beleive that is such a vital key important aspect to successfull integration: that she is able to dress sexual around the home and be pleasing for the lover.
Please keep us posted!
What do others think RE it being obvious that she dresses for BF and obvious that BF is in charge?
its gooto hear that you have enjoying and have fun ..