[et_pb_section admin_label=”Section” fullwidth=”on” specialty=”off” background_image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/slideBGw_960wl.jpg” transparent_background=”on” allow_player_pause=”off” inner_shadow=”on” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off” padding_mobile=”off” make_fullwidth=”off” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on” make_equal=”off” use_custom_gutter=”off” background_color=”#ffffff”][et_pb_fullwidth_slider admin_label=”Fullwidth Slider” show_arrows=”on” show_pagination=”on” auto=”on” auto_ignore_hover=”off” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off” remove_inner_shadow=”off” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” hide_content_on_mobile=”off” hide_cta_on_mobile=”off” show_image_video_mobile=”off” custom_button=”off” button_letter_spacing=”0″ button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” button_letter_spacing_hover=”0″ saved_tabs=”all” global_module=”16689″] [et_pb_slide heading=”Cuckold / Hotwife Marriage” background_image=”http://cuckoldmarriage.info/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/contented_cuddle.jpeg” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” background_color=”#ffffff” alignment=”center” background_layout=”dark” allow_player_pause=”off” header_font_select=”default” header_font=”|on|||” body_font_select=”default” body_font=”||||” custom_button=”off” button_font_select=”default” button_font=”||||” button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” use_bg_overlay=”off” use_text_overlay=”off” text_border_radius=”3″ header_font_size=”50″ header_font_size_tablet=”60″ header_font_size_phone=”60″ image=”http://cuckoldmarriage.info/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/cuckold-symbol.png”]Cuckolding: the loving violation of traditional marital expectations.[/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide heading=”Introduction To Cuckolding” button_text=”Continue Reading” button_link=”/2010/12/intro-to-cuckolding/” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” background_color=”#ffffff” image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/CMINFO_introduction.jpg” alignment=”center” background_layout=”light” allow_player_pause=”off” admin_title=”Intro” header_font_select=”default” header_font=”||||” body_font_select=”default” body_font=”||||” custom_button=”off” button_font_select=”default” button_font=”||||” button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” background_image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/slideBGw_960wl.jpg” use_bg_overlay=”off” use_text_overlay=”off” text_border_radius=”3″]For one spouse to express this concept to another is an act of love and trust. Skeptical as you might be, being here is a great start to having an open mind and an even closer marriage.[/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide heading=”Tending The Marital Garden” button_text=”Continue Reading” button_link=”/2011/03/tending-to-your-marital-garden/” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” background_color=”#ffffff” image=”/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/CMINFO_Tend.jpg” alignment=”center” background_layout=”light” allow_player_pause=”off” admin_title=”Marital Garden” header_font_select=”default” header_font=”||||” body_font_select=”default” body_font=”||||” custom_button=”off” button_font_select=”default” button_font=”||||” button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” background_image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/slideBGw_960wl.jpg”]A simplified analogy to provide perspective on the role of a lover within the marriage.[/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide heading=”Cuckolding: A Love Triangle” button_text=”Continue Reading” button_link=”/2013/03/cuckolding-a-love-triangle/” background_image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/slideBGw_960wl.jpg” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” background_color=”#ffffff” image=”/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/a-helping-hand2.jpg” alignment=”center” background_layout=”light” allow_player_pause=”off” header_font_select=”default” header_font=”||||” body_font_select=”default” body_font=”||||” custom_button=”off” button_font_select=”default” button_font=”||||” button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on”]Integrating another male into the marriage as the wife’s boyfriend is rewarding and safe when practiced with a healthy perspective and in a responsible manner.[/et_pb_slide][et_pb_slide heading=”The Biology of Cuckolding” button_text=”Continue Reading” button_link=”/2010/11/the-biology-of-cuckolding/” background_image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/slideBGw_960wl.jpg” background_position=”default” background_size=”default” background_color=”#ffffff” image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/simple_human_biology.jpg” alignment=”center” background_layout=”light” allow_player_pause=”off” admin_title=”Biology” header_font_select=”default” header_font=”||||” body_font_select=”default” body_font=”||||” custom_button=”off” button_font_select=”default” button_font=”||||” button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on”]Our base instincts and biology lead us to cuckolding.[/et_pb_slide] [/et_pb_fullwidth_slider][/et_pb_section][et_pb_section admin_label=”Section” fullwidth=”off” specialty=”off”][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” make_fullwidth=”on” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on” use_custom_gutter=”on” padding_mobile=”off” allow_player_pause=”off” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off” make_equal=”off” parallax_1=”off” parallax_method_1=”off” parallax_2=”off” parallax_method_2=”off” column_padding_mobile=”on” gutter_width=”2″][et_pb_column type=”2_3″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Home Intro” global_parent=”7909″ background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]
Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as a kink founded in humiliation and inadequacy but the reality is far different for most couples actively involved in it.
Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the relationship. Contrary to popular myth (especially as expressed through porn), sexual inadequacy is only a significant factor in a minority of cuckold couples. For most couples, sharing her is a loving way to expand the boundaries of their relationship and safely explore a more natural approach to human sexuality and relationships.
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A wife-centric, rewarding experience for everyone.
The image right is an excellent example of a loving, cuckold marriage dynamic. Wife, husband, boyfriend are all involved. The wife is being touched, reassured and pleased by both her men and in return, is pleasing them both – just in different ways. Inviting another male into the marriage exercises the marital bonds as weights do a muscle – requiring effort, but making them stronger for it. When practiced properly, cuckolding will bring a couple closer together & greatly increase intimacy despite of and also because of the intimacy the wife now shares with another.
Cuckold Marriage.info was first established in 1996 following the founder’s first experience openly dating someone’s wife. Since then, the mission of the site has evolved to one of education, empowerment and encouragement. Cuckold Marriage Info also seeks to correct the misinformation online about the lifestyle. While the definitions below aren’t fully sufficient to educate someone new on these concepts, it at least puts us all on even footing to communicate from the same perspective.
To continue gaining perspective on the basic elements of this lifestyle, take the curated tour of articles by the founder.
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Important Terms To Know
Though the use of labels/titles/definitions is often hotly debated, I have established some definitions within this community that members and visitors should be aware of to communicate effectively while participating here.
[/et_pb_text][et_pb_tabs admin_label=”Defintions” global_parent=”7909″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” tab_letter_spacing_last_edited=”off|” body_font_size=”15″ tab_font_size=”12″] [et_pb_tab title=”Cuckold” tab_font_select=”default” body_font_select=”default”] The term “cuckold” has a classical definition of a husband to an unfaithful wife. The term was coined from the Cuckoo bird which lays its eggs in the nests of others and never raises its own young. While there have likely always been husbands who enjoyed their wife expressing her sexuality with others, the modern usage of a husband who is supportive of her extramarital intimacy has only been around the last twenty or so years. [/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=”Cuckold Marriage” tab_font_select=”default” body_font_select=”default”] A cuckold marriage is one where the husband has encouraged his wife to take the lead sexually. The most direct and most meaningful way to empower a wife with sexual authority is to enable and support her extramarital sexual exploration. Cuckolding is the loving, willful violation of traditional marital bonds. The empowerment of the wife to take the lead sexually is an expression of D/s roles. [/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=”Hotwife Marriage” tab_font_select=”default” body_font_select=”default” tab_font=”||||” tab_line_height=”2em” tab_line_height_tablet=”2em” tab_line_height_phone=”2em” body_font=”||||” body_line_height=”2em” body_line_height_tablet=”2em” body_line_height_phone=”2em”]Often treated as a polar opposite of a cuckold marriage, a hotwife marriage is focused on more casual sexual interaction with other males without much familiarity or regularity. Most couples start out as a hotwife marriage by default since the exploration of a cuckold marriage takes time to develop. The difference between a hotwife and cuckold marriage compares to the difference between a bull and a Dom.[/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=”bulls/Doms” tab_font_select=”default” body_font_select=”default” tab_font=”||||” tab_line_height=”2em” tab_line_height_tablet=”2em” tab_line_height_phone=”2em” body_font=”||||” body_line_height=”2em” body_line_height_tablet=”2em” body_line_height_phone=”2em”]The term bull is often used as a general term label for a male involved with a married woman. Often falsely thought of as being synonymous with the term “Dom”, a bull is involved purely from a sexual standpoint; as would a bull let into the pen of female livestock – hence the term. A bull can be assertive sexually but still lack the experience and bonds necessary to provide a submissive/couple with effective leadership. A Dom (also referred to as an Alpha) is far more involved with the couple and often plays a significant leadership role.[/et_pb_tab][et_pb_tab title=”D/s” tab_font_select=”default” body_font_select=”default”] D/s is short for Dominance/submission and is an overt recognition and exercise of the natural, social ranking and roles we all participate in subconsciously whenever we interact with others. This process tells us whether we can/should assert ourselves with someone, defer to them, or see each other as peers. A couple are inherently practicing D/s when the wife is shared outside the marriage. 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More information on that process is available here.[/et_pb_tab] [/et_pb_tabs][et_pb_text admin_label=”Banner Ad” global_parent=”7909″ background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”] [pro_ad_display_adzone id=”7455″] [/et_pb_text][/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″][et_pb_sidebar admin_label=”Home-BP sidebar” orientation=”right” area=”et_pb_widget_area_2″ background_layout=”light” remove_border=”on”] [/et_pb_sidebar][et_pb_cta admin_label=”Register CTA” global_parent=”7909″ title=”Membership” button_url=”/register/” url_new_window=”off” button_text=”Register” use_background_color=”on” background_color=”#00a8ff” background_layout=”dark” text_orientation=”left” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” custom_button=”off” button_letter_spacing=”0″ button_use_icon=”default” button_icon_placement=”right” button_on_hover=”on” button_letter_spacing_hover=”0″] A free membership is required to participate here. Membership is free and your information is private. A valid email address is required. Ensure junk mail is checked before contacting me about registration. [/et_pb_cta][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” make_fullwidth=”on” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on” use_custom_gutter=”on” padding_mobile=”off” allow_player_pause=”off” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off” make_equal=”off” parallax_1=”off” parallax_method_1=”off” parallax_2=”off” parallax_method_2=”off” parallax_3=”off” parallax_method_3=”off” column_padding_mobile=”on” gutter_width=”2″][et_pb_column type=”1_2″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”center” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]
Six Most Recent Posts
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Download
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Get Verified
[/et_pb_text][et_pb_blurb admin_label=”Get Verified” global_parent=”7909″ url_new_window=”on” image=”/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/verified_edit.jpg” animation=”off” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”justified” title=”Get Verified” url=”/2013/01/being-genuine/” use_icon=”off” icon_color=”#3cb6c4″ use_circle=”off” circle_color=”#3cb6c4″ use_circle_border=”off” circle_border_color=”#3cb6c4″ alt=”MiauMiau in the shower with Luvr written on the door.” icon_placement=”top” use_icon_font_size=”off” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”] Getting verified is the ideal method to establish yourself within the community while providing an encouraging example to other couples. [/et_pb_blurb][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row” make_fullwidth=”on” use_custom_width=”off” width_unit=”on” use_custom_gutter=”on” padding_mobile=”off” allow_player_pause=”off” parallax=”off” parallax_method=”off” make_equal=”off” parallax_1=”off” parallax_method_1=”off” parallax_2=”off” parallax_method_2=”off” parallax_3=”off” parallax_method_3=”off” column_padding_mobile=”on” gutter_width=”2″][et_pb_column type=”1_3″][et_pb_sidebar admin_label=”activity-profile” global_parent=”7909″ orientation=”left” area=”et_pb_widget_area_12″ background_layout=”light” remove_border=”on”] [/et_pb_sidebar][/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″][et_pb_sidebar admin_label=”activity-forum” global_parent=”7909″ orientation=”left” area=”et_pb_widget_area_13″ background_layout=”light” remove_border=”on”] [/et_pb_sidebar][/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_3″][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][et_pb_row admin_label=”Row”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”CTA navigate to categories” background_layout=”dark” text_orientation=”center” background_color=”#0c71c3″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]
Continue Exploring by Choosing A Category Below
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lifestyle concepts
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deeper exploration
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opinion/commentary
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toys & more
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