Re: From Cheated to Cuckolded

My wife and I entered the cuckold lifestyle in a similar way but with a twist. I was the one cheating on my wife. I had cheated numerous times and got caught several times but not nearly every time. I had girlfriends for years before my wife would find out. She was very mad every time and it took a real toll on our marriage.

Then I discovered one day that she was cheating on me – or so I thought. It turned out that I had discovered her affair before my wife and her boyfriend had gotten to the bedroom stage. I was shocked and she was contrite. But, after a couple of days of thinking about it I started to like the idea of her having sex with other men. I told her that she could go ahead with her boyfriend and have a lusty affair.

She was doubtful that I really meant it and afraid that I would change my mind after she started having sex with this guy. I kept telling her that that the idea of her and another man turned me on – big time.

Finally, one day (about a week after I gave her the green light) she told me that her boyfriend had screwed her on his couch and that she really enjoyed it. She wanted very badly now to continue.

I was shaking, jealous and excited all at once. She wouldn’t let me screw her for a couple of days but after we had fucked again I was ready for her to go on with her boyfriend and told her that I really wanted her to continue with him.

Each time they were together I would get extremely excited by the idea of him inside her. I would then get pangs of jealousy that would come and go but I was always encouraging her to continue with him.

My wife always refused sex with me after having been fucked by her boyfriend but would give me a great handjob while giving me some details of her sex with her boyfriend. I loved those handjobs and the images in my mind of the two of them.

 

After she and her boyfriend broke up, I told her that I would like her to find another lover. After some time she did find another guy anxious to dip his wick in her and they went at it for a couple of months.

My wife has had a number of lovers since and I always get that old excitement and the jealousy but I never want her to stop.

She loves being pursued and bedded and I love the excitement of being aroused by her with another man.

 

So, the bottom line is that you can start the cuckold lifestyle by different paths. It is necessary to make sure that your wife knows that you want it for her and for her to get as much enjoyment out of it as she wants with your total support. She needs to know that you will not change your mind (even if you have some jealousy) and let her have some freedom to set the stage. I don’t think women  want to be controlled in this lifestyle – let them drive.

 

Good luck to all of you wantabes. It is possible to have your wish and enjoy it. I have no regrets.

 

BT