Chasity makes him more attentive

Our journey started about 10 years ago when we were just in our 40s. We were very busy with work and family and as a consequence our sex life started to dwindle. He then began to have problems with maintaining an erection on the odd occasions that we did make love. I was very understanding and he used toys and oral to satisfy me and for a while this was enough.

Around this time he got interested in chastity. Without my knowledge He bought a CB chastity cage and began wearing it during the day when I wasn’t around. Eventually after a year or so he built up the courage to tell me of his interest and suggested that it might bring back a spark into our love life. I wasn’t sure at first but he was able to find links to a couple of websites that gave a sensible view on the practice. Once I understood more I agreed to give it a go.

Almost from the outset I found that I was aroused by the power trip that locking his cock gave me which was something I hadn’t expected. So, he began his life as a chastised male. His periods of confinement increased from just a few hours to what it is today about 7 – 10 days at a stretch 24/7. We also changed cages as the plastic enclose variety was difficult to keep clean if it wasn’t being removed for days at a time. So we moved to a ‘bird cage’ type metal one, which was ok at first but was too long for me. However I liked it as the space between the bars allowed me more scope to tease him while locked up. We finally moved to using a Fetish Fantasy Extreme cage which is shorter but still allows me to arouse him without letting him out.

The move from plastic to metal lasted for another 18 months or so and during this time we continued to use toys and oral on me. During this he had become interested in cuckolding and had brought it up in conversation a number of times. Not unsurprisingly I wasn’t interested at first, I was suspicious that it was a lead into swinging. As time went on he was able to find some more literature about the lifestyle, including this site, and convinced me that it was something recognised and to understand the husband’s motivation in suggesting it

Chastity makes my bf absolutely more attentive , he pleases me orally daily and I allow him release on a pre determined number from random.org . We put in a number from 1 to 30 and I let him push the button. Last draw he got 29 days . He is on day 19 and is begging for release . He will do anything I ask in hopes of me allowing release , not gonna happen !! It’s a cucks life that we both agreed upon . I would never been in a non Cuckold relationship ever again .

My wife is about to setup a date with a man she works with. She has my blessing of course and has promised to make me her cuckold. She has always had a black fantasy and yes he is black. He is very interested in her and I’m sure it will happen soon. She has purchased a pink chastity device for me to wear when it happens, along with pink panties. She knows this excites me also but should I fight or be apprehensive about the panties and cage? She has told me she intends to cuck me often if this works out and when she does I will be pantied and caged. Does this happen to most cucks?