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Take your time. Do not push her. Women need security and stability and to know they are loved and desired. We had been together for over 20 years when I first brought it up. We had always had a FML but the when I first brought up her taking a lover for her sexual satisfaction she got pissed at me and thought I wanted another woman. Even though I had developed ED problems and knew I was no longer satisfying her the way she deserved it still took a few years of talking and role playing and her finally meeting a man she was attracted to and who let it be known he was attracted to her, before she finally asked if I was serious and wanted to give it a try to see how we both would react to her actually dating another man.