Reply To: Swingers Shifting in Direction

Hello again. Back when I started our rather lengthy story, it was my intent to continue reporting on our progress and experiences. Unfortunately, my wife experienced a serious back injury that has required 3 surgeries and a LOT of down time (over 2 years) from our outside play. Neither of us wanted to risk further injury or cause her a set back. We were able to play together, slowly, gently and in limited ways/positions.

Well, she is finally back to herself and her Dr. has given her the go ahead to resume her normal activities again. If only he knew what that meant! So we have just reconnected with our 2 old well hung friends and both are more than ready to ‘reconnect’ with her. I briefed them on MY interest in watching closely so that they know what to expect. Both were fully on board. After the first play date with each, I plan to discuss with them that they can be free to treat her as their own and ignore me entirely. In fact, the more intimate the ‘girlfriend experience is, all the better from my perspective. She is also fine with all of this and is giddy about getting back in the swing of things. We will also get back to seeking more partners for her. I will keep up the reporting here, in hopes others can be informed about things that may work for them.