Seeking bull in Southern California for 40s couple

Hi, we are located in Simi Valley, CA. Looking to seek a bull to try this for the first time. Someone who is respectful to know what this is, and what it isn’t once the bedroom time is over. We are a 40s couple, not in our prime and no where near supermodels. Looking ideally for someone who is Caucasian, built with something nice to satisfy the wife but others will be considered if respectful enough.