A ruined orgasm is another way of asserting control over the cuckold’s sexual experience.
Just as there are many aspects to cuckolding, there are many aspects to denial. Though seen by many as referring to restricting or ending a cuckold’s access to intercourse, denial really refers to asserting control over a cuckold’s sexual release and pleasure related to his demoted dangly bits.
I have always highly encouraged the hotwife’s active participation in her cuckold’s releases – if not on a routine basis, at least on a periodic, special-event sort of schedule. Being personally involved in masturbating the cuckold is very rewarding for the cuckold and a valuable source of intimacy for the cuckold couple, but as with most everything in cuckolding, there are options!
How It Works
The most pleasurable element of male orgasm isn’t the orgasm itself, but the heightened sensitivity of the penis, particularly the glans, during orgasm. If all sensation is denied the moment the cuckold’s orgasm starts, the pleasure is reduced by a good 80%. A ruined orgasm also often leaves the cuckold feeling slightly unsatisfied and eager for more reward, which is a better option for keeping him in the proper mindset.
Intently gauging the excitement level.
Seeking stimulation in vain.
The last of his load expressed with little pleasure.
For a wife who is actively and frequently dating this may be the better choice as the standard release for their cuckold, but each couple, each cuckold, will vary some in what’s appropriate for them. It IS very effective at reinforcing for the cuckold that he can’t assume the outcome when you wrap your fingers around his truth detector. Cuckolds deserve great orgasms, too, but having the contrast of a minimized or ruined orgasm helps provide true appreciation for them when allowed while also helping them stay focused on their role of supporting you.
Practice Makes Perfect
That’s the best part: if you’re not practiced at this and aren’t sure how he’ll react, you can start practicing immediately! Ruined orgasms can also be combined with related play like edging.
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My wife has full control over my orgasms…indeed my penis completely. I am not allowed to touch it or seek pleasure without her say so. She will frequently grab my cock and balls at anytime letting me know they are hers to do as she wishes.
She edges me most days sometimes two or three times…bringing me to the point of orgasm several times…without letting me peak…it is the most agonisingly frustratingly torturous act she can perform on me..and she knows it. All I get is the release of a tiny amount of cum as she pushes my release back…..my cock throbs..my balls ache..and she walks off laughing as another day of my denial passes. I am left heightened…my senses sharpened..my penis becoming erect at anytime…pre cum seeping from me as days of built up frustration fill me…and honestly …the worst part? Is when she finally gives me my release…as I feel drained…empty…disappointed….I even think sometimes that I would prefer not to have an orgasm at all…but to be left in the energised state of a denied cuckold.
StokieUKCpl
I know the feeling. My GF does that to me. Sometimes she lets me cum and then vigorously rubs the head of my cock. WOW, that is painful but glorious!
Other times she edges me, stopping just as I am about to cum. I prefer that to cuming and rubbing.
Having an orgasm is so quick that all the pleasure of fucking is lost. Giving my GF a half dozen orgasms is the highlite of having sex!
I have had this experience as well. It certainly leaves my cock wanting, but is a release. I was hoping she would feed him his cum after. Just to reinforce his place as sub.
I had a dom do that to me several times and it is unbelievably painful and totally pleasurable. I would do anything for after she did this to me. She sure did know how to control me. She got me to sign over my paychecks to her and she put me on a small allowance. She took my Caddy and gave me her old Honda. She eventually sold me and I was able to buy my freedom.
This was a wonderful experience.
My wife strokes me until it is just starting to cum, then squeezes very tightly, not letting any cum out. Well, actually a little does come out, and she feeds it to me, it is such a treat! She does this three or four times, and if I have been good, she finally let’s it spurt! It is just amazing, and she has become an expert at it!
I have now reached the point in my cuckold relationship where I firmly believe that I do not need to orgasm ever again. The pleasure I get from my wife being a “hotwife” is enough for me.
When she sees her boyfriends I am hard constantly and the feeling of frustration inside me is mind blowing. If they decide to include me in the play…which sometimes happens…even if I am told to wait outside the door…or maybe downstairs..then my pain..torment..pleasure is multiplied. With each cry from my wife as her boyfriend thrills her…with every squeak from the rocking bed..then finally the unmistakeable grunt…as her boyfriend cums deep inside my wife…the tears will most of the time stream down my face with the shear…overwhelming angst that I experience….if I am then called to the bedroom to perform my duties…its likely that as Luvr has stated..a single tear will also flow from my redundant penis…and I am cuckolded to perfection.
I am a proud Cuckold
Rob
Contributed a bit of late about Greta, surely one of the icon hot wives that I have ever known. Greta learned to be a bitch pretty fast and the more she played the bitch, the more her cuck husband Mark was devoted to her. Greta certainly knew how to ruin his orgasms. She had that firmness of touch on his cock that seemed to promise so much and which faded faster than snow in the Sahara as the strokes neared their finale. His cock would spurt, he would gasp and groan, begging her to take hold of it again, but instead she would giggle, shoot me this electric smile and say, ‘I told you I can make him do anything. You like that don’t you…you like how I taunt and tease him. You bring out the worst in me you really do.’
Bull’s get a lot from ruin orgasms too then, when a hotwife gives a masterclass in this. You check the cuck’s face, his eyes and you see the longing there. The flirty little madam has him by the balls and through his head. He is on the shortest leash possible and he knows it!
I dont know what can my orgasms may be classified. After her first affair, she was constantly making comments about my cock size and when i did get erection, she used to tell the details about their love making, which used to make my cock to spurt. She never allowed any intercourse, telling it is useless, as for she is concerned and ask me to use my tounge to satisfy her. Gradually, even though i was getting aroused and excited, my cock woildnt’ get hard. and I started to get dry orgasms. Pergaps that is one way of cheating her and defying her when she started telling that you cannot have orgasms. Ihave strong doubts that she was feeding with harmones, for me to not get hard.
Now i do get strong dry otgasms without any hardening. And I can have it 3-4 times, when I am watching their love making and before he spurts inside her