One of the risks of interacting online is the prevalence of fraud. By fraud, I mean someone purposely representing themselves as other than what/who they are. This is something I’ve been used to since I first got online in the mid 90s, but never ceases to irritate me.
I’ve gotten quite adept over the years at spotting the obvious frauds and finding incompatibilities and obvious falsehoods in statements and stories I’m told by people. Often the bullshit factor is tolerated for entertainment sake or despite some misgivings I opt to believe someone at face value. Sometimes that decisions bites me in the ass as with cuckold4tina who turned out to be one of the frauds. His story seemed too good to be true, but was certainly entertaining and at first, the images he provided for his blog posts seemed legit, but alas, I began to suspect something wasn’t right and when the rightful owner of one of those images contacted me, my suspicion was confirmed and I immediately removed those posts.
Why am I bringing this all up? If you want to be part of this community – be genuine. If you’re not, you’re going to get caught sooner or later and then you’ll no longer be welcome. There are plenty of other places you can pretend, so go there.
I started talking to this person on DarkCavern, one of the places I go to help spread the word. Little did I know that this was actually cuckod4tina.
Today, he came into the chat here and was talking about wanting to be included among the cuckold couples, so I began using some of the ‘investigative tools’ I have to check who people are and discovered this was, in fact, cuckold4tina and I called him on it. Click on the image for a larger view to read how that went once my data checking was conclusive.
He wasn’t the first to fool me and likely won’t be the last, but be warned, I’m not forgiving when it comes to lying to me.
Seth, You would think it would be easier to find suitable and confident bulls. Most seem to be fake. They are just looking for pics. Many are simply all talk, but afraid to follow thru. We keep looking though……
Frauds really frustrate me. I’ve been working for years trying to just talk to my wife about this subject and now that I have done it I find a lot of BS on the internet with guys making outrageous claims.
I just realized I misstated something. I should have said I was unsure about a couple sites listed under the “Recommended Sites” section as opposed to the “Hall of Fame”.
I figured that’s what you meant…
Luvr,
One of the reasons I very much appreciate your site and am thankful to have found it is the legitimacy factor — thank you for your diligence in trying to keep it that way.
On the subject, there are a couple of sites in your Hall of Fame that, although their hotness factor is absolutely through the roof, for that very reason I suspect they are not legit. They resonate with me as if written by a man. I’m not pointing out which ones because my purpose isn’t to cast mud, and I hope I am wrong! Rather, I was wondering if you either know from personal verification that all the sites in your Hall of Fame are what they purport to be, or whether you also have similar suspicions but link them for the entertainment factor. Not writing this as an indictment of your choice of linked sites, just curious as to your thoughts.
Frauds are common. We have run into that when looking for suitable partners. Most turn out to be pic collectors with no intent of ever meeting.