Captivating, isn’t it?
Yes, she’s pretty and it’s very sexy to see her nude, bound and gagged, presumably for her lover, her Dom, but of more importance in having a proper frame of reference is to appreciate the submission inherent in this image.
How She Got There
If you consider her cuckold as the one who bathed her, shaved her legs, her sex – all nice and smooth for their Dom, then buckled her into the restraints according to their Dom’s directions before taking his traditional seat, you begin to appreciate this simple image a bit more.
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Ritualized Submission
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Perspective
Notice her alignment on the bed. Her pretty blonde head faces the foot of the bed instead of the headboard. Was it to capture the image of the red ball-gag in her mouth? Perhaps, but I would point out that this one small change will have a significant impact on the experience shared by this couple with their Dom.
A Visual Bond
I would make this choice as a Dom knowing that her husband has already seen her sex yield to my cock many times by now and though that still holds tremendous erotic to show him that, it can be even more erotic to deny him that view and instead, encourage and enforce eye contact. I would hold her blonde head up by her hair and tell her to look at him so they can communicate silently while I enjoy her body in the numerous ways possible in such a scenario.
I had an experience years ago when I was first starting out as a cuck. I was dating a Mexican girl who was extremely openminded. She was always trying to spice up our relationship – from doing a striptease (awkward as it was) to coming to my door dressed as a girl scout (not sure about that one). Anyway, she found out about my fantasy of watching her with another guy and it was perfect because HER fantasy was to be completely submissive to a Master. I never asked if she had lived it out before, but we placed a local ad and met a really nice (albeit quiet) guy who didn’t seem ANYTHING like a Master. He was someone you’d see working at Best Buy. Not tall. Average looks. That first night at my place only lasted 15 minutes or so. When they started to kiss, I did what I always do when I’m turned on and nervous.. I talked. He didn’t like that. He took his bag and left. She suggested I call him back the next day and apologize. I did. He demanded the next meeting be with her alone. He picked her up and took her out to dinner. She told me they made out in the backseat and that she fucked him. I was so turned on and couldn’t believe how fast things had progressed. The third time they met was back at my place. This time, I was cool as a cucumber. The whole thing was so surreal, though. He came in with this black medical bag and sat down. He told her to undress. He put a ballgag in her mouth, tied her arms and wrists behind her back .. to her ankles and left her on my bed, face down. I lived in a studio at the time, so as he and I sat down on the couch to talk.. we were looking at her bound and gagged on the bed. Wow. We talked about the weather and other inane topics. He got up, walked over, spanked her, untied her and fucked her hard for the next hour or so. Then he left. I could tell she had never been fucked so well. They met a few times in the weeks that followed without me – always at her place. When she told me that he fucked her ass, I came in my pants. I saw him once more a month or so later. My place. He fucked her on my floor, with her on all fours. He had me put his cock in her ass. She and I broke up months later for reasons that have nothing to do with this, but I always look back to that and realize that my god that’s what I want – a guy who will be her Master and a lover who wants to be so completely submissive to him that she will deny him nothing.