There are two main ways to find a couple:
- networking: using lifestyle related websites, chatrooms and real life venues (swing and/or D/s clubs & organizations)
- organically: paying better attention to the women and couples you see in day to day life
The reason it’s important for active AND aspiring hotwives to both dress and behave as a hotwife is to help ensure men find it more appropriate to approach and flirt. Some men will do so regardless of marital situation, but those aren’t necessarily the sort of men best fitted to being included in a hotwife/cuckold marriage.
