The view of this moment, as captured in the featured image above, lacks the most important element of this moment in time, forever captured by her husband’s photograph.
Much is said here about the bond between a hotwife and her boyfriend, but as I’ve also said, that bond exists solely because of the bond between husband and wife. The full image below gives us the real story when we can read that expression on her face, the smile that’s obviously for her husband. In this moment, she’s looking at her husband, seeing how his own penis twitches and bobs in excitement and she realizes how truly fortunate she is to be this loved.
My second couple was much like this – she rarely spoke to me during our coupling. Instead, she watched, taunted and encouraged her cuckold who witnessed every coupling knowing he’d been denied before our coupling and would continue to be denied afterward. I was little more than a living dildo for her – for them, but she was voracious in bed and I wasn’t complaining. Neither is this guy.
I don’t know about the rest of you, but one of my favorite aspects about being a cuck is when my wife tells me the different things her boyfriend does better than me. Wow, what a rush! They have even developed special positions he has sex with her in, like the “sex swing” they keep at his house. I’m envious, but still perfectly happy I am my bride’s #2 option in bed. 😉
Love when the wife looks at me with a cheeky smile and a bbc just about to enter her.
Mat, sometimes things are quiet and I post reflective bits, or else try to fire some conversations that might interest others in the forum. Right now, things have accelerated and I’m seeing a lot of a lady called Emily and her husband-James. This forces me back to this discussion and your very kind words.
A mature bull, one with some of brain as well as big balls is going to have to manage the cuck direct to some extent, as well as through his mistress. If she is really dominant with him (and Emily is certainly that) a bull shouldn’t try to over manage things, but we can’t escape the fact that many cucks try to open a relation ship with the bull-to seek security in what he says about his perceived role. Its here that conversations about wife as mistress, wife as hotwife can arise. I think its a good idea to show that you understand his appreciation of his mistress- and review ways that help her to take control even more. Sure you can’t and shouldn’t press this too fast. But the lady SHOULD quickly feel spoilt mistress in her own house. The menage a trois should seem quickly settled.
Just what things cuck says to appreciate his mistress is forged in their opening fantasies-their exploration of what this could be like. But I find several strands of appreciation are usually there.
a. The way the lifestyle makes her look so desirable, even if he doesn’t have a piece of the action. Women are often deeply turned on by being desirable but unattainable. She likes to be his muse, his obsession.
b. The way the new arrangements are changing her attitude, making her more incisive, assertive, dominant. This is strange new territory for so many wives, even though they have fantasised about fucking another man. It can be a real rush for them. They are a new person, and of course for the cuck it feels like playing with fire. What might she command next?!
c. The way she is more daring now-as regards him. A wife who learns to humiliate seems a strange, exotic, an oh so desirable creature. It may take her a while to trust the equation, the more I belittle him, the more he wants me, but it gets through eventually.
d. The way that her fucking points out how inadequate he is. Freely acknowledging this, that she is right with bull, elite, special, natural, responsive and submissive to the right sort of man, the more aroused she becomes. She feels lost in the thrall of it all-‘we can’t help this can we, my boyfriend is boss, he will always be boss, you’re so so kind accepting that’.This isn’t just about cock size I promise. It is about performance and her judgement, her expectations. Emphasize that, so that she feels happy assigning the cuck lesser chores.
So there can be loads to talk about-with him, and he often looks to learn from the bull. A reasonably intelligent bull can make it so much sexier for both him and her if those conversations are handled well.
Ramblings anyway. Hope that they help.
I love the understanding this site brings to this profound relationship. As a practitioner of femworship, I appreciate the whole tone of this site. Good work!
I think ‘sunk in submission’ is a phrase that says it all, and I like that situation, when a hotwife tells me that her cuck is so into it, that his waking dreams are always about me taking her and dismissing him. Imagination is then required, to reinforce that thrilling submission on his part. He needs to realise again how useless any efforts to compete would be. She needs either to enjoy her submission to me in front of him, or as stated above, to enjoy being a bitch, humiliating him as she does so.
Several things work this magic in my experience:
Fucking the hotwife alfresco-quickie sex but as and when I want it. It emphasizes her availability to me. I once had a husband stand guard outside the john on a train whilst I fucked his wife inside.
Fucking her mouth-Then his memory is ignited every time she kisses him- those lips were wrapped about my cock.
-Petting in public. Sex isn’t just about cock, its about access. Once beneath a table in a restaurant I had a husband hold up is wife’s skirt so I could finger her sex. He saw how she ground down on my fingers, her expressions as she tried not to orgasm. He would never forget just how much she needed my cock-my attention.
Bull’s need to understand these needs and to be quietly arrogant when they are met.
Jezz, you never fail to impress me with the depth of feeling and understanding of the subtleties of the cuckolding dynamic…..from all sides. I have a pretty, younger wife who has not done the deed yet, but we fantasize and, as lovely and sensitive as she is, she also has enough ‘bitch’ in her to be a great candidate as a cuckoldress. I would want it to be a deeply touching and growing experience, however. It seems to me that, if we came across a bull (if you will accept that moniker) of your knowledge and ability, the ice could be broken and a new era of our 28 year marriage could begin. Kudos to you, Mat
This is Bull Tim and you’re correct about it all
My Hotwife loves her cuckold hubby but she needs a Bull to ravage her in the primal way only a true alpha male can
Cucky knows this and prepares his sexy Hotwife for her Bull and I ravage her multiple times in all holes in their marital bed until our lustful urges are satisfied, but the hunger for one another simply keeps growing
Bull Tim
I see nothing wrong with any of this as well. It’s all about putting the cuckold in his place. that’s just my humble opinion. it’s a win/win/win for all involved. keep the cuck supportive. keep the Bull happy. Keep the hotwife happy.
All women deserve to be ravished just as much as women deserve to have many lovers to do just that. Cuckoldry gives the women today the freedom to have all that and have a willing cuckolded man to share everything with and support her every desire. Life can’t get any better than that. Some men are luckier. I hope to be that lucky cuckold someday. Female Led Relationships are the only choice for me.