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I’ll take a shot. For background, we have been swingers for 10 years, and a cuckold couple only for the last two. But we were able to apply the lessons from swinging to our cuckold lifestyle. We stick to common sense rules (at least they are to us) and fortunately have had no real bad experiences and honestly have no regrets. But if we were ones to rush into situations I’m sure we would have plenty. Move slowly and follow your instincts. As the hubby, be 100% supportive every step of the way! Be her biggest cheerleader and let her know you have her back.

Jealousy can be a deal breaker for some. I still get jealous, but the jealousy is partly why it’s so hot. When she dates solo it still tears me up a little. You don’t really combat or control it. You use it. You will learn to love it!

We have a very nice ritual that when I travel overnight for business (about once a month) she is allowed to have a BF over. She dresses for him, cooks him dinner or they go out…. she enjoys the “dating ritual”. All I ask is that 1) he is somebody we have played with together and trust, and 2) she texts me a few hot selfies.