Reply To: 'Something new'

Taz, I can understand that YOU might want to slow things down, as it is making YOU nervous. But remember, this is about her and for her. You need to demonstrate to her how eager you are to help her. Do the things that are necessary to make this happen without slowing down.

Always express to her how much you love her and how HAPPY you are that she is going in this direction. She wants to involve you, so don’t make her regret that decision. Express your love for her verbally and in any other way you can think of.

My wife is black only and she requires that I be as well, so I have a natural preference for others to go black. If the man she saw that is black fits the bill for her, then go for it!

Gracie