Reply To: How Many Men Has Your Wife Had Sex With?

I’ve found it difficult to find a lover who meets all my personal preferences and is not someone who would just be another dick. I can get it every night at home if he wants to get down, so I’m still particular. My husband definitely has plenty of length and girth, so I don’t need to take any steps backward. I’ve done a couple “sympathy” lays but going in with expectations too high can diminish the experience. If a lover feels self-conscious about my husband being too close or in the same room there’s nothing wrong with making some adjustments so we both get the most out of it, but if a guy thinks he’s the boss or wants to play the humiliation or degrading game, I’d not be the woman for it. Doing fluff, guiding a cock into me or some kind of clean-up would be up to him. He just enjoys me getting all I can in depth and pleasure. I hate condoms so I am VERY careful and there are always a lot of questions. After all that and then having a lover actually be able to get rock hard and perform with true interest makes what we have experienced sometimes more work that I want to deal with. You’d be surprised the number of men who just think it’s just all about free, low-effort sex. Blah!
Barbara