Reply To: My Story (The Road to Acceptance: Where is it heading?)

Thanks Voyercock. I appreciate your comments and your thoughts. I am happy my wife and I had our conversation and I think it helped both of us. And I am happy I had the conversation with her ex. Since inviting him into our bed I feel like we have developed a relationship and our conversation was important. We had to clear the air and even though I did not like what he said to and asked of my wife, I appreciate his honesty. He could have lied about any part of what happened or what he said or how my wife reacted. But he was honest with me, I know that.
I agree with you that I think there is less risk of losing my marriage, my wife, by her fucking her ex then if she had a bf. In chatting with other cuckolds, many of the wives develop emotional feelings for their bfs and even thought the cuckolds seem okay with it, the wife and the bf are the real couple and the cuckold is on the outside looking in. I do not want that. I want my wife to be mine in all aspects, except in the bedroom where she fucks another man. I still want sex with her. And even thought he might be the alpha male in our sexual life, I still want to be her husband in bed.