Reply To: How do Doms see cuckolds?

Thanks for your feedback, nice to hear from you both. I know “real” is a kind of cliche, and I use the therm more to describe people who see themselves as “read” in a specific role.

In my own experience, I’ve always been “equal” to my wife’s lovers and no humiliating has been requested or given. But still I feel a kind of “silent” humiliation in the fact another man fucks my wife and she openly express how good it feels. And in our first meeting even said to the lover he had the biggest and most sexy cock she’d ever seen.

I had the impression this praise from my wife made her lover even more potent and he did even more to please her. And it was a kind of kick for him to be named bigger and better than me, which I could easily understand.

In other setups described here, the cuckold is almost entireley absent. So do such cases where the cuck and the Bull/Dom hardly meet give any kick to the Dom at all? What’s the difference between such setup and meeting a cheating wife? Or a friend with benefits?