Re: Introduction

I very definitely agree with CompletelyHers when it comes to taking it out of the bedroom.  Any open communication about a positive move toward any type of sex with others HAS to be calm and deliberate.  Pillow talk is a good start to find common ground but the real-time details have to be discussed when both partners are not sexually aroused.  That’s not to say that some of those details may not be arousing in themselves but to make real progress, you must do the planning with your clothes on and your feet on the floor.