Anonymous
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    Tony –

     

    Control is an interesting word because couples generally give over control to Me, they find it a relief to do so. My control is through the desire to please Me, continue with Me, the improvement I make in peoples lives and marriages, the innate desire to submit and obey and have the burden of having to figure everything out themselves taken off of their shoulders. The feeling that the couple can relax and breathe because they have finally figured this out and it was so much simpler than they had imagined, so drama free, so pleasing to all involved. The sense that control is there, power is there, dominance is there, all the security those things bring is there, someone caring for them, looking out for them, seeking their best interest in the control and power He has over their lives. The genuine desire to please the Man who has done this for them, the love and affection that it generates, the understanding that to have this so little is actually required of them in terms of what they have to do: submit and obey, be genuine and transparent, be themselves. Sometimes couples have a difficult time believing that, at the end of the day, that is all they actually have to do to make this work.

     

    More than anything else that is what I provide couples, the opportunity to be themselves without judgment or condemnation or ridicule. 

     

    There is so much more to this, at least to how I do this, than just showing up with My dick hanging out.