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After meeting, chatting online, and talking by phone, I (hubby) meet the guy first at a public place. I get a feel for his personality through conversation and likes/dislikes about sex, etc… We then trade full-panel std tests and schedule a meeting at a hotel. I know what she likes in a guy and she likes to meet “a stranger” first the first time and be able to go bare.
I'm there to start but if we're comfortable, I leave and let him have her all to himself.
We've done this only twice. She saw the first guy for six months. Then we meet a different guy online. This past Monday was the six-month mark that they have been seeing each other exclusively.