Cuck confidence

I would strongly urge you to be comfortable and sure of yourself before going down the path, and also to make sure your hot wife knows how to give you the right kind of attention as she explores with other guys.  Your self-confidence can definitely be challenged in this lifestyle, but if relationships are handled the right way it can work out great.  I’m sure others here have more and different advice, but there is risk that you can feel worse about yourself if things don’t go the way you want them to.

Hello,

My wife and I were swingers before we started to follow this path. It doesn’t matter for what reasons, we just decided it was something we would like to try. Since we did I have personally not lost any confidence at all in either myself, my wife, my marriage or my life. Indeed simply knowing that my wife cuckolds me makes both she and me very happy and that in itself helps me in who I am. Of course no one knows our private lives (as much as I would like that to be so) but the mere fact we have a secret in our marriage underneath the front we portray also gives us both a warm feeling. Knowing looks and winks between us when something comes up that reminds us of our secret is a part of everyday life..and also adds to the scenario. When my wife spots a good looking guy and tells me how much she would like to have him in our bed..I instantly get excited and aroused…especially if accompanied by a sly slap or squeeze of my growing but unused erection.

Am I less confident in myself? No..I would hope not. I am a Sales Manager for a multi national engineering company and visit Blue Chip companies discussing projects worth millions to the corporations involved. If it was affecting my life and decision making process..then I wouldn’t entertain it.

I speak for myself of course…but if you are happy..how can it be wrong?

Every cuckold I met was like you. A beta male and the type to be bulled and called a nerd. Some viewed themselves differently but their wife and I did not buy it. I was a bull and loved husbands like you. Very easy to satisfy their wives with my average, but skilled, penis. I do not know how true all cuckold post are but the wives I have been with were not looking for BBC or any large penis for that matter. They wanted orgasms, many of them. They wanted to be treated like they were sexy and desirable. They wanted someone to dominate them and treat them like sexual beings. They all wanted someone to love them like I did.

I was never attracted to the wives that were told what to do by their cucks for his amusement. I was never an actor in anyone else’s fantasy.  I never wanted to see a naked man in my bed or bedroom. I ran the show and never had a problem with that. However, now that everyone has adopted the rules of cuckolding found online and now how to properly do it, things may be different. 

These last two posts  (Aug. and Jan.)seemed heartfelt and genuine.  Good for both of you.

@StokieUKCpl said:
Hello,

My wife and I were swingers before we started to follow this path. It doesn’t matter for what reasons, we just decided it was something we would like to try. Since we did I have personally not lost any confidence at all in either myself, my wife, my marriage or my life. Indeed simply knowing that my wife cuckolds me makes both she and me very happy and that in itself helps me in who I am. Of course no one knows our private lives (as much as I would like that to be so) but the mere fact we have a secret in our marriage underneath the front we portray also gives us both a warm feeling. Knowing looks and winks between us when something comes up that reminds us of our secret is a part of everyday life..and also adds to the scenario. When my wife spots a good looking guy and tells me how much she would like to have him in our bed..I instantly get excited and aroused…especially if accompanied by a sly slap or squeeze of my growing but unused erection.

Am I less confident in myself? No..I would hope not. I am a Sales Manager for a multi national engineering company and visit Blue Chip companies discussing projects worth millions to the corporations involved. If it was affecting my life and decision making process..then I wouldn’t entertain it.

I speak for myself of course…but if you are happy..how can it be wrong?

its a great lifestyle……