special cuckold

Were you happy with your marriage before you learned you wife was having need with someone else? If so, then continue to enjoy being married to her. Appreciate all your wife gives you. If you were not happily married then what can you do to improve your marriage?
Be kind, appreciative, open to learn new things. Identify your feelings like “coffee” has.

Does she return home happier, less stressed from her dates? Don’t you benefit from that, too? What other benefits have you overlooked?

First off Let me say I am sorry for your situation and how this has affected you. I know you must be hurting. I want to be clear here, cuckolding is a mutual shared experience and anything other is cheating. obviously, this hurts you and her continuing to fuck other men while she is aware of your hurt is well nothing short of cruel. It would be a lot different if you had been aware and encouraged and even participated in, but the fact she did this behind your back and long enough and bold enough that your friends told you. You told her you wanted a divorce and I hate to tell you but she frankly didn’t care. she continued and still continues to willingly hurt you. This is not healthy, nor should be tolerated. It doesn’t sound like you could EVER trust her. Having cuckold desires for your wife to have sex with other men are a part of you or not. Sure, it possibly could be learned and successfully adopted, but for most of us on here it is native to us, something that you know you have and would relish. I think your wife and you should see a professional counselor. Ideally, you should at very least consult an attorney. NOW! Do not be a doormat. yes i know you love her but this is toxic and it will destroy you piece by piece and in the end she will take everything until there is nothing left of you and when that happens she will leave. Don’t let that happen. respect yourself and good luck.

well sweetie, if this truly what you want then I sincerely wish you nothing but the best and i hope you are a very happy cuckold for years and years to cum!

I agree with the first advice of HisLovelyWife. We encourage and support our wife’s to have a sex partner. You seem to be trying to accept that she has a lover she won’t leave. You stated you do not want to be a cuckold.
I told my wife she is free to be with whomever she wants whenever she wants. It sounds like you may be trying to save your marriage. There is a difference.
Like he said: don’t be a doormat. she will lose respect for you and leave you

Have you met her bf? Would you be ok with meeting him?

Do you have kids? Can you imagine telling your wife that you will watch the kids this Saturday night so she can go have fun?

Can you imagine someday introducing your wife and her boyfriend to someone else? “This is my wife and her boyfriend”.

And if some day she decides she no longer wants your penis in her as she loves his big cock?

It’s not for everyone and it hasn’t been until the last several years that I have moved in this direction and would welcome this

One day at a time, right?

Whoops! Apologies.
Do enjoy your stud.

She’s not a cuckoldress, she is a cheat. Cuckolding is something that couples do together, with constant communication to ensure that both parties are happy and content.

What would she say if you said you wanted a girlfriend?

Why aska question when you already know the answer?

What goes round comes around, eh?

Are you interested in having her cuckold you? (think we agreed that she had previously cheated) Have you made that desire known to her? Have you offered to support her? Have you asked how she would like you to support her? Do you think you could meet her lover? Could you cordially invite him into your home?

Is she still interested in having sex with you? If not, are you ok with getting a release on your own without a sex worker’s involvement? Have you discussed these details?

maybe others here see it differently, but cuckolds shouldn’t be getting sex outside their marriage unless their spouse explicitly permits.

Maybe let her know that you realize you do not fill all of her needs and you are ok with her getting her those unmet needs met elsewhere.
How long have you two been married?
How old are each of you?
Do you have kids?
Are there one or two nights a week where she would like to openly spend elsewhere?
You could ask if she is seeing one other person or more than one.
Do you two communicate well or is it a struggle? If she does share something you need to accept it without judgement of she will likely not share again.
I’ve heard cuckolding can make some good marriages more exciting, but it’s not a fix for a bad marriage.
thanks for sharing. hope to hear from you soon.