Struggling Bull Needs Advice

That is tough, I must admit we’ve always looked at experience and recommendations in the past. The problem is it’s easy to get let down as a couple, recommendations and experience count for a lot.

One thing you could do is try clubs and parties because at those places everyone is in the same place, people just talk and connect and then the chemistry kicks in and the fun begins but then off the back of that you make new friends and start to get recommendations and experience.

Or just claim to have more experience than you have. What we’ve found to be most important is just the personally/approach of the bull. We don’t want someone weak or inexperienced, asking to get some experience. My wife can get a weak experience in bed from me. But it’s more than dick pics and shagging. You should make sure you include the hubby in discussions, let it be known that you want to make sure he gets a good experience from this, gets what he wants, you’re there to help the couple out. A promise of good sex and patience can go a long way.

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This is a question about marketing.

What are couples looking for? if you know then you know what your sales pitch should be.

What do they avoid? Now you know what to stay away from.

Don’t mention experience. It really isn’t that important. What is important is how you sell yourself. Think of it as a resume. One that is inviting and makes people want to read more, as well as say, “hey, this dude seems cool and real. maybe we should reach out.”

Also, never promote yourself by saying you “want to be” this sounds just like someone that wants to fuck other men’s wives for their own benefit.

A couple is looking for a third that is like a therapist. They hear what the couple wants, work with them on their terms, then play the part. All the while, being respectful and considerate.

Think of yourself as an adult actor who helps couples fulfill their desires in a safe and respectful manner. Asking someone to enter their bedroom requires a lot of trust. Think of it from their end.

A simple sales pitch could be, “Compassionate and attentive bull looking for a genuine couple that believes in mutual respect. A couple that finds safety, honesty, and trust important. If you can keep a secret so can I. Let’s get to know each other to see if we are a good match.”

That is not threatening in the least, it doesn’t show that you are only interested in sex. It shows you will work with them and they come first. Most couples trying this lifestyle struggle to find a good bull for the first time.

Also, keep in mind that most people reaching out to bulls are frauds. There is only a small portion of the cuckold community that is real. Most are fake.