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For those of you who read this when I first posted it, you likely wondered what was going on since the answer didn’t seem to match the question – my bad. I confused this question with another, so, let me answer this one appropriately:
If your wife wears an anklet and knows what it means – how have you not had ‘the talk’?
My guess is she doesn’t really know why you gave her that anklet and what it really means. Before I can advise you on how to proceed, I would need to know a lot more about her.
- is she a natural flirt or is she introverted?
- if you asked her to dress a bit sexy to go out, would she?
- have you ever talked about her past sexual experiences?