Once again, a study confirms what we already know, but I think the published outcome is still incorrect.
According to a new study by Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender and Reproduction, women are much less likely to experience an orgasm during casual sex than when having sex within a committed relationship, UPI reported.
via Women less likely to achieve orgasm during casual sex | Fox News.
It’s not the committed relationship that’s the key, it’s the presence of an emotional bond – the very thing couples new to this experience feel they have to avoid. While such worry is understandable, maintaining an emotional distance between a wife and a man she dates is counterproductive and a false sense of security.
In a forthcoming article I will speak in more detail on that bond, its necessity and how all three participate in managing it to build the marital bond instead of weakening it.
I couldn’t agree more Luvr. Mechanical sex, making out as though it was a gym exercise isn’t sexy and it doesn’t add to the frisson of cuckold sex longer term. Cucks need to encourage that measured intimacy between hotwife and bull. Hotwives need reassurance that to need bull cock, to actively seek it and orgasm hard is not to abandon the generous husband who facilitates that so eagerly and often.
My wife only seeks out men with whom she can have an intense emotional bond which, once in place, leads inevitably to sex. I encourage her. It’s fulfilling for her and I couldn’t possibly feel good about myself if I stood in the way of her expressing her feelings and desires. Plus I get the greatest turn on in knowing she’s another guy’s sexual outlet.
I’m inclined to agree with the original article and that women are more likely to orgasm when having sex with someone they feel attached to. However, there is I think a reverse aspect to this, and that women are more likely to develop an emotional bond with a man that has made them orgasm. My wife meets guys (with me present) in hotel rooms for one-off encounters – not all the men make her cum, but when it happens I know from watching that the chemistry between them has been intense. When I speak to her about the men she has been with she speaks most fondly of those with whom she had that chemistry, so in basic terms – she is more emotionally connected to those men who can fuck her to orgasm.
sounds great!