The dynamics of the situation are the most thrilling part.
If you compare the aroused yet restrained penis of the husband with the free and erect cock of her boyfriend you’ll find they seem roughly the same size, yet his wife is eagerly servicing her boyfriend with her mouth in anticipation of having that cock inside her. This demonstrates the mental component to the lifestyle where the thrill of denying her husband and enjoying another in front of him are easily as thrilling as having a much larger cock. In fact, it could be said that choosing another male with a cock no larger than her cuckold’s penis is a better exercise of D/s in that the wife enjoys teasing and denying her husband perhaps even more than the extramarital intercourse.
What a fantastic shot. Looks like the cuck took it also.
I sometimes watch my wife with another man and sometimes I do not. The dynamics of size very often come into play in a marriage. It has in my marriage. For my wife I am too small. But we stay together. And still we find ways to please one another. When I see (or know about) my wife being made love to by a guy with that has a cock of substance, one she can feel, and one attached to a good looking guy with stamina — I just love the pleasure that she feels. And, true too, that the feelings coming at me all at once, the feelings of “the cuckold husband” —- I just get so excited. And my very erect penis proves to her that this is just the right thing to do.
As described in Size Immaterial, a real turn-on for a wife just might be having a lover who is about the size of her husband. And if he is watching, it might be an extraordinary turn on for the husband, that his wife’s lover causes her even more enjoyment, but with no larger a cock. But this is the case with my wife. I’m really small. And I thought I knew what to do with it when I was making love. My wife told me, for a long time, that Size Does Not Matter. But, finally she decided to play it straight. She leveled with me. The truth came out. She had a desire for a larger endowed guy. I actually got the hint (and I took it) when I saw that she prefered the dildos she played with to be inserted very deep. And when I found her prefering her toys to my penis, well, like I said, I can take a hint. But still, she stood by her story. However, time tells the truth. And finally she explained her real feelings. And so I learned of her frustration. The funny part is, I had feelings of wanting to see females I was in a relationship with, having sex with another man, before I even knew my wife. And I had these thoughts about her too. But, she had eased my desire, at least some, by telling me how I satisfied she is. Sometimes I would bring the idea to her (of her with someone else), during lovemaking, and she’d play along. But, after the sex she would swear that this would never happen. As you already know, things changed. I can tell you now, that whomever invented the phrase “Size Doesn’t Matter”, did not have a vagina. Sure a woman can be excited with a guy the size of her husband like described in the article, “Size Immaterial”. But, for my wife, and I’m sure lots of others, a small penis is not the penis they desire. Watching her react to a guy who is really well endowed, just brings out another woman in her. She enjoys a real cock much more than what I have been able to offer. There is nothing like the truth. My wife loves me enough that she wants our marriage to continue. And I love her enough to allow her this freedom. And I will say that she has gone out of her way to help me handle this. For example, she will whispers in my ear after she has been with another man, and we are alone, something like, “thanks for letting me be with him”, or, something like “he was a really good lover, thanks for letting me and him be alone”. Gentle words like that are a big help to me. And more assertive words also are exciting to me; like “I wish you were as large as he is”, or, “his cock feels so good in me, a large cock is better, but I love you anyway”. Words that compare, he and I, cause more of a humilating feeling. But, that kind of humiliation is desired by me. I think one of her secrets is knowing how to use humiliation. It is an art to some females with cuckold husbands. And her lovers, if we are both with him, enjoy when she causes me humiliation. She will say to her lover, something like “my husband is so much smaller and I’m so lucky he is okay with my being with you”. Last week she reminded me to thank her lover, in front of him, as he was leaving. And she knows how envious I get when I see a large cock. She has told her current lover how much I admire his cock. My pants were off when she said it. I was semi-erect. But when she said that to him I got fully erect. And sure she did comment on that too. When I help her prepare for her lover, her mention about his size drives me crazy. It is very enjoyable when my wife gives me a handjob and tells me about how size really matters to her. We do sometimes (but not at all often) have intercourse, and when we do…..hearing about how larger is better…….well those words just have a life of their own.
What a thoughtful post forher. It certainly shows your devotion to this lovely and assertive woman.
I’m struck by how common the focus is on cock size. Of course comparisons are so visible and then humiliating. You need to be humiliated and at least some hotwives need to humiliate. I know of hot wives who scream through climaxes on the bigger cock, something that is impossible with their husband. I am sure that the humiliation this causes for a husband is something that accentuates her orgasm.
But it’s not just cock size that can be the basis of the humiliation. Sometimes I think its social status too, the guy who earns the bigger pay cheque, the guy who drives the more expensive car. I know of a wife who had the hottest sex going with her husband’s boss. He wasn’t a bull per se, he didn’t live the lifestyle as it were, but he did enjoy taking her-getting one over the husband and it was then really hot for the wife and husband as they talked about that. She told her husband calmly, ‘if you object to Garth fucking me, I am sure he can send you off on a sales trip somewhere. It’s better you co operate.’ The husband did as he was told. He admired the jewellery that his boss bought his wife, accepted that they took weekends away together and fed on the sex scraps, licking pussy on a Sunday night before reporting to Garth for his work assignments the next day. Garth knew he had the whip hand, that the guy’s wife wore the trousers at home, and he didn’t care that his conquests fed their desires as a couple. The husband simply co operated and that was just dandy. For that lady at least, the boss’s cock size wasn’t everything (she reported him average down below). It was the elitism of going with the guy who commanded her husband that triggered the buzz. It was rut writ raw!
I think the woman should seek out larger penises for common sense reasons but sometimes if you can only get a small one the teasing for your cuckold is maybe all you are seeking. More so if it is a quickie decision or it may even be a neighbor of his friend. It does not really matter, she is the one making the decisions for her sexual pleasures, so that’s all that matters. The woman knows what’s best for her and more so what’s better for her cuckold. Live well and live happy. Thank you, Glenn
We actually had a guy living with us for a year. This guy worked with me. His cock was no bigger than mine, but she loved having him inside of her. My wife’s daughter and son thought he was the most amazing man ever, and he loved them.
This guy lived with us and slept with me and my wife. He had sex with her when we went to bed and in the middle of the night and in the morning, every day. She often told me that he and I may be the same size, but he got her off every time they got together, something I have never been able to do, even yet.
The denial may not always be something done purposely, but it happens. I admit I liked seeing her get of with him every time. And when we worked together, and when he would talk about how amazing my wife was, I felt so proud. Denial is not always a bad thing. Sometimes it can be a very good thing.
Well, it is a size thing for me.
All our toys are about twice my size. That tells a story. But deep down it knowing I can’t hope to bring her to an orgasm with my penis, but an extension or dildo, yes.