I initially thought of this image as simply another example of a proud, interracial hotwife, but realized that’s likely not the case. Look away from the sight of her soft, white tit cupped in his hand for a moment and look around the image. You’ll note that she’s not wearing a ring and is college age. Take note of the granite counter tops and upgraded trim and light switches. This girl isn’t at school, a hotel or a dorm – she’s at home. How old do you suppose that guy is? Yeah, he’s not going to school with her, but he may well school her in a different way.
One Couple’s Experience
Once I made these observations I was reminded of conversations I had not long ago with a couple who were conflicted about the path their lifestyle was taking. Their daughter had started to become aware of their lifestyle and the inclusion of their bull in their marriage when she came home unannounced from college on various weekends to find her parents weren’t home alone. It’s not that she walked in on any explicit sex, but when she gets into the house and all three look rather hastily put together and nervous or mom makes it out a few minutes later it’s difficult to pretend something isn’t going on.
It turned out to be easier than either of them thought for her to be let in on her parent’s lifestyle because the daughter had already taken note of how her mother behaved and responded when observing or interacting with black men but had never brought it up openly. Needless to say her mother was a bit shocked she was so transparent in her interest, but it worked out for the best in the end. It was more of a challenge for her daughter to understand/appreciate what her father got out of his wife having a boyfriend, but she did at least appreciate that he gave her such freedom.
The real conflict came when it became apparent there was sexual tension between the boyfriend and the daughter. On one hand the couple couldn’t see how they could profess a woman has a right to couple with whomever she chooses and tell her that her mother’s boyfriend was off-limits, but on the other hand, the idea of him and their daughter forming a relationship was very intimidating to the wife and she found herself jealous and threatened by the potential for him to take a younger, attractive lover.
“Welcome to the anxiety your husband manages every day,” I told her. Her husband had learned to share why couldn’t she?
This gave her some pause and truly did give her renewed perspective on what it’s like to walk in her husband’s shoes. Her husband is happy that she has a younger, more virile and hung boyfriend to offer her experiences he cannot and she should be happy for both her daughter and her boyfriend that they will each have new pleasures and experiences because she gives her blessing as her husband did for her.
A Family Commitment
Over a several week period they would check in with me and we’d talk about how things were progressing. As one would expect, both the boyfriend and the daughter were anxious about their interest in each other and how that might disrupt the family. I suggested the only way to resolve this was to clear the air and either give them their blessing to couple or risk it happening clandestinely. I suggested that the daughter and the boyfriend could date on their own, outside the home, but both parents had reservations due to local perception of interracial couples. I suggested that the only way to fight that is to fight it openly, but they weren’t ready to take that step so I suggested the following agreement: during (planned) weekends the daughter spends at home, the boyfriend is exclusively for her, otherwise, exclusively for the wife. In this way the boundaries are clear and expectations managed. It’s also the only time the cuckold is allowed intercourse with his wife – everyone wins.
Now their daughter is learning at a much earlier age than most that marrying for love doesn’t mean a woman has to give up exploring or enjoying her sexuality and is learning first-hand from her mother on how to be a responsible hotwife to a cuckold should she find herself in a relationship suitable for a cuckolding lifestyle. She’s also learning that her father’s submission to his wife and her boyfriend can be viewed as a strength rather than a weakness and has value to the family.
Is this the right path for all couples/families? Obviously not. But it’s also something that need not be disqualified without consideration.
This is a concept way too far, way way too far. You guys need to really get a grip of what is going on here and to taste reality. You run the risk of being so sexually aroused by your relationship this arousal makes you feel everything is alright. It is not alright to introduce a bull to your daughters, it is just wrong. You have come to your arrangement personally and your personality has been formed a long time ago. You are both cool with your arrangement leave your daughters to find their own path. There is nothing wrong with telling fellow adults what you do and how it works for yo family or not but do not involve them.
This is another very important article. When we first began seriously exploring the cuckold lifestyle, we had the opportunity to chat with an experienced hotwife who asked us if we would share our Bull with our daughters. At first, we were very shocked and even scared at the thought that had not crossed our minds. After thinking about it, we realized that it would be natural after having an integrated boyfriend and being an example of how cuckolding positively enhances a marriage and a household can benefit by the presence of both an Alpha Male Bull and a beta male cuckold husband, for daughters to grow to desire the same relationship and its benefits. Also, local Dominant Bulls of good quality are at a premium, so sharing such a Bull within a family that has already integrated such a boyfriend would be natural. As with any family or marriage, communication and respect are essential to achieve harmony. When our daughters are grown adults, they will make their own choices on whether or not to enter the cuckolding lifestyle, and whom they choose to be romantically involved with be it Bulls or cuckolds, or vanilla males. Should they choose the lifestyle and desire the Bull that they already know and trust having been integrated into the family, we would be happy to share. As our boyfriend integration progressives, the expectation is that we would include our Bull in more family holidays and get togethers. It would also be natural for our siblings and parents to observe how fulfilling a cuckold marriage has been for us, and to develop the same desires. Should this become the case, it would be another opportunity to share and develop the Family Bull concept. It would be a way for the family to grow closer together just knowing that all involved share special interests and common intimacies. For the Bull, it would be an opportunity to expand his role as the Alpha Male and enjoy the benefits of having more females in his harem.
This is an extremely well thought out reply to this potentially difficult topic. Well said !
Thanks for all the interesting perspectives. We are close yo making this step ourselves and welcome the advice.
I guess a bull who dreams of a harem might love this, the double thing and of course increased influence in the household. It might be very hot for an extremely submissive cuck husband. But it does I think pose problems for the older of the two hotwives and i for one like to make one woman feel very special. Becoming a hotwife is very complex and sensuous and it takes all the conversations, the sensations and the control episodes to explore that. I want my woman to concentrate on submitting to me, exploring us and dominating her husband so she can enjoy that. Looking back over her shoulder is distracting.
I find it interesting that the daughter became a lover of her mothers Bull, but I may be involved with a family where I am the wifes Bull but could also be the lover of her mother.
I have never met this older woman or seen photos of her but was told she is an attractive, intellegent and active woman. I would like to explore the option of fucking this woman but unsure how her daughter might react.
Has anyone experienced this situation?
I should add that, regarding the overall thrust of the article, Jen is zealous about her autonomy — that includes her sex life. When Val has offered even the most minimal sexual instruction Jen wanted nothing to do with it (I’m always reminded of the line from that old TV commercial: “Mother, I’d rather do it myself!”). Since she has zero interest in even meeting John, let alone having any kind of relationship with him, the scenario described above isn’t going to happen. Instead, Jen enjoys her boyfriend and others and will — on rare occasion — turn to Val and me for some simple advice. The fact that we have a sex positive household where Jen is free to bring boyfriends home with her has brought us closer, I think (though not in the way the article says).
Luvr and i have chatted a bit about my situation. In essence, our only child, Jen (then 15), figured out Val had a lover and was terrified we were on our way to a divorce. We needed to finally sit down together to explain that her mom and i love each other more than ever and that i was supportive of her relationship with John. Like the young woman described above, Jen was baffled why i would ever want a marriage like this (explaining that part to her was WAY more awkward than Val telling her about her and John). In our case, though, neither John, Val, or I want John to have any involvement in our family. For her part, Jen has no interest in meeting John at all. The most positive outcome of all this so far is that Jen has become much more comfortable with the idea of dating more than one boy at the same time and now knows that there are some great guys out there, like her dad 🙂 , who would be totally supportive of it. There’s a lot less stigma to being thought of as a “slut” when you know mom is, too.
I’m with Stokie on this one! My wife and I are anonymous when we meet with other guys, and I know many of them are using pseudonyms also. Introducing a Bull to the family would be a step way too far for us. Whilst I get pleasure from seeing a Bull fuck my wife, I wouldn’t get any pleasure from being included in any way with my daughters sex life.
Great article on the family dynamics of cuckolding. Would love to read updates on how this family is progressing.
There is no way on earth this would happen with my family. The relationship my wife and I have is a trusted and loving relationship. We both know what we want and understand each other implicitly. if any bull made advances toward my daughter….the bull would suddenly find that the cuck has teeth.
We have a family Bull in Brazil, it has been a wonderful and powerful experience. To know the man who takes my wife has also taken my daughters is both emotional and arousing.