A ruined orgasm is another way of asserting control over the cuckold’s sexual experience.

Just as there are many aspects to cuckolding, there are many aspects to denial. Though seen by many as referring to restricting or ending a cuckold’s access to intercourse, denial really refers to asserting control over a cuckold’s sexual release and pleasure related to his demoted dangly bits.

I have always highly encouraged the hotwife’s active participation in her cuckold’s releases – if not on a routine basis, at least on a periodic, special-event sort of schedule. Being personally involved in masturbating the cuckold is very rewarding for the cuckold and a valuable source of intimacy for the cuckold couple, but as with most everything in cuckolding, there are options!

How It Works

The most pleasurable element of male orgasm isn’t the orgasm itself, but the heightened sensitivity of the penis, particularly the glans, during orgasm. If all sensation is denied the moment the cuckold’s orgasm starts, the pleasure is reduced by a good 80%. A ruined orgasm also often leaves the cuckold feeling slightly unsatisfied and eager for more reward, which is a better option for keeping him in the proper mindset.

Intently gauging the excitement level.

Intently gauging the excitement level.

 

Seeking stimulation in vain.

Seeking stimulation in vain.

The last of his load expressed with little pleasure.

The last of his load expressed with little pleasure.

I don’t encourage wives to make this form of release the standard release for their cuckold. Rather, I see it as just another option to keep the cuckold from feeling he knows what to expect when you wrap your fingers around his truth detector. Cuckolds deserve great orgasms, too, but having the contrast of a minimized or ruined orgasm helps provide true appreciation for them when allowed.

Practice Makes Perfect

That’s the best part: if you’re not practiced at this and aren’t sure how he’ll react, you can start practicing immediately! Ruined orgasms can also be combined with related play like edging.

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