Truth Detector

There is only one effective measure of a cuckold’s truthfulness: his penis.

The cuckold’s penis is an essential tool in understanding a cuckold’s state of mind. This is especially true starting out when words don’t come easily and discussion of difficult topics like inviting another male into the marriage often need non-verbal input.

This input comes in the form of how the husband’s penis responds to the conversation and the ideas contained in them.

Don’t believe a husband who dismisses his state as only due to being physically handled – if he is turned off mentally or emotionally, no amount of hand job will keep him erect.

The Truth Detector is also key during later phases of a cuckold marriage when commitments or an expansion of particular practices are sought.

From 0 to 1

Just taking that first step from flirtation, exhibitionism, can be difficult for a husband.

Ego still intrudes and often forces his mouth to deny wanting his wife to actively and physically respond to the male sexual interest she generates, but his penis will always speak the truth.

If erect, it IS a path he wants to take – it’s just a matter of setting petty or ego-based obstacles aside.

Interracial

One or the other – or both – may have interest in pursuing cuckolding with an interracial context interracial cuckolding presents a different set of challenges (some just perceived) that impact a husband’s ability to be honest about his support for his wife going black.

Anxiety is less when the dating is private but as mentioned below, public dating aspects can add layers of benefit – and layers of challenge.

Denial

Most cuckolds instinctively understand that a male invited into the marriage to attend to his wife’s sexual needs should take sexual priority.

Restructuring a husband’s access to intercourse in one or more ways is a common thread to successful cuckold marriages but the path to it is conflicting. Cuckolds almost universally respond positively to it – but they’ll rarely ask for it – it’s something to be expected of them.

This restructuring can be based on a ratio, x per y time period, or only after the bull but for some this denial can mean exclusivity of intercourse entirely for the bull and having that discussion while holding the cuckold’s penis is essential.

Denial can also include enforced chastity – use of a device – as the means to enforce the denial. It can also be used simply to curb masturbation when not actively supervised. Either way, it’s a topic a wife can expect to only get a truthful response for from the Truth Detector.

Public Dating

Sometimes a wife’s relationship can start out with public dating but typically this is a phase when a bull is transitioning to being her bf and their time together increases in frequency and duration. Dating publicly is a critical part of a wife being a gf to her bull. If she she is not available to date and be part of his social circle, it tends to just be a matter of time before his interest will turn to someone he can date socially and invite to his events as his gf.

Be sure to have a cuckold displayed and preferably in-hand when discussing new arrangements which might result in increased anxiety for him so you can hear the truth from his penis.

“Speaking” The Truth

I encourage keeping a cuckold nude or at least his truth detector exposed or observable so we can both see his penis respond in real time for us and know his true state of mind at all times.

A cuckolds penis will often be in a relaxed state but should be easily brought to attention with some simple verbal cues or conversation.

This also brings me to another important point: size doesn’t matter when it comes to being a cuckold. This cuckold’s penis isn’t at all small, but yet it’s the one throbbing pointlessly while another cock is gripped by the snug embrace of his wife’s sex.

A cuckold’s truth detector is a physical form of communication critical for a cuckold couple’s success.