Cuckolds want desperately to witness this for themselves.
But, the reality is that this isn’t always possible for a variety of reasons:
- the bull may be new to the idea of the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle
- the bull may not even know yet of the husband’s support for her extramarital coupling
- busy couples can’t always arrange a day/time when all three can be present
- booty call happens
Nevertheless, a hotwife’s obligation is to ensure her cuckold feels involved. Worried about such an image getting out? No problem, angle the camera to exclude faces and done. There’s little excuse for a hotwife to enjoy such freedom (and cock) and not make the effort to do the right thing for her cuckold.
A thoughtful Dom would think of their cuckold’s needs and direct his pet to take this shot. Building a rapport with the cuckold is an important step in a bull or Dom taking his place within their marriage.
I agree-cuck’s need to be very involved, but I wouldn’t have the phone pic become an everytime thing. It can become a bit formulaic and then a hotwife becomes frustrated that she can’t enjoy the fuck because it becomes a photoshoot so often.
Other senses can be used to facilitate involvement. Cum soiled panties are great. I sometimes take them off my lady, seal them in a padded envelope, with a cursory note to her husband to lick them clean before they go in the washer. This is very arousing for women, the way a bull takes charge. He’s not allowed to lick pussy-he starts with the panties first. One girl asked me what should follow if her husband do as I ordered in front of her? I suggested more lock up time and she delighted in enforcing that. He licked panties within the week.
Arrogant tale aside the point is I suppose, involvement can take different forms and use different senses. An audio recording for instance can be a great taunt, especially if the lady is really vocal!
Hotwives can also become very complacent in their obligation to keep their husband properly involved – this was a reminder to not become one of them.
I agree-complacency is the sin. It takes a lot to be centre stage with two men and if the hotwife sinks into the arms of her bull out of relief, forgets the generous husband who has facilitated this then the alarm bells should ring. I guess I’m just not great on mobile phone pics as the only way to do that. Its a bit cliche, but I can see that it is a good compromise if she is not ready to have a cuck present when her bull fucks her.
I wonder luvr -what you would advise when a hotwife is cautious about being showy as regards the sex, when she needs time to cement that sex as secure first. Are there other wish you were here messages to share? Is it ever OK for her to enjoy some sessions without a wish you were here? Its balancing angst and reward isn’t it?