Reply To: White couple needing advice

Kendra, it really shouldn’t be much of a mystery to you how he’d take it. If he’s already supportive of you dating and you choose a black guy to date, it’s unlikely that he’ll not be supportive. If he was hostile toward black guys, you’d already know it and wouldn’t have to ask. I would suggest that perhaps he has always been afraid to ask or encourage this path because he feared the same reaction from you.

Communication is a critical part of this lifestyle so my last bit of advice is to get all cuddly with him, take him in your hand and simply ask him if he would mind terribly if you had interest in dating interracially. His penis should answer that immediately one way or the other for him.