Reply To: WIFE WRITING 4: LOVING YOUR HUSBAND AND YOUR BF

Thank you very much for the comments.
I will admit I kind of see “different” and “more” to be interchangeable here. And I will actually use what you said as a way to explain that. Because what you explained actually ties in with exactly what I was saying and demonstrating with my chart. I will also add some of my own stuff, which will not be in “quotes”

GREEN – BF
1. “exciting and physically satisfying – we need deep touching.”

2. “Live in” – eventually that would be great, yes.

3. “but I recognize that what I fill in her life is not enough for a full life.” – Exactly. You make up an entire rectangle but not the whole rectangle.

4.”I’m there for the (play) domination, sex, physical touch and exciting activities – bird watching, hiking, sailing, canoeing…”

5. Deeper more intimate physical, mental and emotional bond.

ORANGE – What they both offer
1. “who do you spend more time with?” – equally, although there are times I do give a little more to my bf.

2. “cultural activities (ok both of us do that)”

RED – Hubby
1. “She needs her hubby and she needs her family.”

2. ” But he provides stability, support, financial / economic security, habit, family support and general comfort.”

3. best friend, twin flame, sister type, and meaningful communication.