Reply To: Voluntary castration

Dear Gracie and BespokeBull,

Thank you for your contributions to this thread. I’m becoming fascinated by this. My wife isn’t openly cuckolding me yet – as far as I know – and I’m thinking about castration. A part of me thinks it will be a relief to be done with all my sexual needs. If I can’t satisfy my wife, what’s the point of them?

The surgical process is certainly dramatic, but it is final. Definitely, I’d do it under a properly qualified doctor/vet/nurse’s supervision. I need to know more about the possibility of getting an erection, even ejaculating lightly. Would this be more frustrating than anything? Certainly a contrast with the virile men my wife would be having. But I suppose that is the point.

For me, castration is nothing to do with becoming a sissy or femininity at all – it’s about ending the pretence of masculinity, defined as virility, sexual prowess, sexually satisfying your wife. People aren’t binary when it comes to gender – we’re on a continuum between very feminine and very masculine.

Hormonal or chemical castration – is a whole another thing. Less dramatic and less final (at least to begin with). I think this would appeal to my C – it would allow us to change our mind and she’d enjoy my frustration, the highlighting of my inadequacy. She knows how much I hate it when I disappoint her, and she’d play on my humiliation. I absolutely agree that the deepest emasculation comes from failing to perform, not from being prevented from performing by chastity or castration.

That must have been an intense scene BespokBull. Please tell us more about the dynamic.

And Gracie, do you come from anal sex?