Reply To: Being #2

I’ve advised a few couples on this question, especially as the cuck sometimes prevails on ME to help THEM (e.g. “please, she’s forgetting about me and loves you, can’t you… do something”), which I always find amusing.

I tell them – and I think this applies here – that they are being fundamentally self-centered in focusing on this issue of whether they are #1 or #2, regardless of whether it’s sexual or not.

What is important in a female-led cuck relationship is that SHE is #1. You as a cuck need to remember that AT ALL TIMES. Whether you are #1 or #2 is not even a question that should enter your mind. You are whatever she regards you, however it suits her, whenever it suits her.

Focus on HER and her desires and preferences and pleasure. If she chooses to see me, her bull, or any other men, that is her prerogative. If she chooses to spend time with you because you care for her and provide her with love and affection when her bull is off doing other things or other women, that is her choice. You will be comfortable and at peace once you realize that it’s NOT ABOUT YOU, it’s about her and making her #1.

When I am with a cuck’s wife, I make her my #1 at that time. I do my best to give her the ultimate sexual pleasure that a man can give a woman. If she wants me to fill her and breed her, I do that. If she wants me to take a break and let her cuck try to fuck her, I do that. If she wants me to make her cuck clean off my cock or feminize him by fucking him, I do that. Neither of us gives a thought to what her cuck wants because at ALL times, he should be making her HIS #1 and thinking about nothing else. That’s your answer to this question.

This is the entire root of why women look to bulls – because it’s not about how he can dominate her, it’s because when they are together she feels like she’s his #1. I may be using her solely for my pleasure, but while I’m doing so she knows that I’m consumed with lust for her body, reveling in her. She doesn’t get this sense from her cuck, who is weak, self-centered, and focuses on himself even when he supposedly says he doesn’t.