We are both 21-22 years old, I am typically quite submissive. I don’t think he wants to be present or involved at first but that could change. We are new to this and have only had one experience that didn’t end well and turned me off from it for a while. We don’t have too many rules at this point, but you must be clean! We will also be having our Honeymoon in Tennessee this December, it would be cool to surprise him there as well.