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    • stonemtncouple
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        October 2, 2021 at 12:13 pm
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        #37979

        My Hotwife’s long time, 12 years now, Friend With Benefits is flying down to Florida to stay with us in our home for 4 days and three nights.

        This will be the longest continuous time they have ever been together in their long term friendship. Since we moved away from him 5 years ago she has had the opportunity to fuck him only once a year. When we lived near him they fucked once or twice a month for several years, always at his place, usually overnight, and always without me.

        Im super excited and anxious about his visit!

        What would you do if you were in my position?

        1. Give them your marital bedroom for the entire time or make him sleep in the guest-room ?
        2. Give them privacy to play alone? or ask to watch?
        Ive never seen them fuck together, just have audio recordings and occasional still pictures of her sucking his cock.
        3. Give them privacy outside the house to go to the beach, restaurants and bars together or tag along?

        Thanks for your comments and if you have any suggestions and ideas of things for me to do while he’s here please let me know.

      • dineshsub9
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          May 24, 2025 at 3:28 am
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          #89396

          My wife’s bull stays at our place every weekend

        • joe and lola
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            August 18, 2025 at 9:57 am
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            #94267

            Allow them to decide, its not your place as cuck.

          • Anonymous
              August 18, 2025 at 10:43 pm
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              #94432

              Hey, that’s awesome your wife’s FWB is visiting for four days! I feel you on the excitement and nerves—my wife’s got four regular bulls and a body count over 80, so I’ve navigated similar vibes. Here’s how I’d handle it:

              Marital Bedroom or Guest Room? I’d suggest the guest room. It keeps your marital space special for you and her, especially with your kids around. It’s a respectful boundary while giving them a comfy spot.

              Privacy or Watch? I’d ask to watch, maybe say, “I’d love to see you two, if you’re okay with it.” Never seen my wife with one of her bulls either, but asking gently keeps it open. Respect their choice if they want privacy.

              Outings or Tag Along? Give them space for most outings like the beach or bars, but join for one low-key thing, like a drink. Balances their time with your involvement.

              Have a quick chat with her before he arrives to share your excitement and set expectations. Keeps things smooth. Let us know how it goes!

            • Madison.cpl
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                August 19, 2025 at 2:12 pm
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                #94436

                I agree with Kevin. Have a chat with her and find out what she wants.
                In our situation, I get the spare bedroom when her bf stays overnight. It’s not often. He prefers the privacy of his place or a nice hotel.
                If you have kids, would you consider taking the kids to hotel with a swimming pool and making it like a mini vacation with dad so mom can spend some time with her friend?
                At the end of the day, you’re a cuck and this should be about your wife’s happiness.

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