Reply To: When She Says “I want someone stronger and masculine”

At the moment she has a natural caution about actually doing something. The barrier is too great.

You need to get the barrier down. For instance, you could go to a nudist beach and show her off.
You could propose a nude massage for her with you present. You could go to a swingers club for a drink.

All these ideas allow her to get comfortable with actual sex with other people. She doesn’t have to have any sex herself, just as little or as much as she wants. (Test these places out yourself first.)

Also go through your circle of friends and identify who is sexually liberated. Start a dialogue with them. Maybe invite them over for nude sunbathing.

Get her to used to the idea of having a sexual persona.