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    • Lara
        December 29, 2015 at 8:06 pm
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        #9870

        Hi

        I went into a chat room just now. I was expelled. I’m really upset. Crying in fact.

        I’m a single woman. I been in a near cuck relationship before. But it ended as my cuck decided he actually wanted me to have sex with other women. 

        I’ve gone on dates subsequently. Only to be rejected quite horribly by men. Once I revealed my sexual desire to be in love with a husband and to want to have sex with other men with his agreement. I’ve been called a tart, a slapper and a whore. It’s been very…..difficult. I don’t seem to be able to find a man to date who is into my sexual predilections. It’s all been most humiliating.

        Then I stumble across this site. I thought maybe here I won’t feel like some type of freak. 

        So I explain in the room I joined that I was new. What I was looking for. I was asked questions. I answered them truthfully. Then I was told I must be a ‘dude’. That I was a ‘story’ teller. Then I was ejected from the room. 

        I still don’t know what I did wrong. All I was wanting was a place I could find a potential man who wouldn’t mind me having sex with other men, whilst being in a relationship with him.

        So now I am back to feeling like an unwanted freak show again. I’ll leave this site. I’m to humiliated to come back. But….before I go. To those that read this please remember there are real women out there like me who find it very difficult to meet suitable men to enter into a loving open relationship with, where all my sexual needs are met by not just having sex with my would be husband, but with other men too.

        I look all blotchy now. Red eyes from crying. Going to leave and try and look up therapists. Maybe I’m just mentally ill for wanting the above. I’ve had enough men tell me I must be and then coming into here and having further humiliation and ridicule heaped on me. Maybe it’s better if I do try and get this ‘fixed’, if I really am ‘sick’ in the head for craving this. 

        Laura

      • Anonymous
          December 29, 2015 at 9:24 pm
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          #12102

          No Laura you are not sick, you will find your cuckold who will appreciate you

        • Lara
            December 30, 2015 at 6:54 am
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            #12103

            Thank you.

             

            You have no idea how much your post meant to me. I’ve been up all night. Ready to throw in the towel and repress who I am, to fit in.

            You have inspired me via your email notification of your post, to soldier on.

            L xx

          • matmagic99
              December 30, 2015 at 8:10 am
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              #12104

              In fact, lara, there are many husbands out here who WISH their wives had more of your attitude.

            • c
                December 30, 2015 at 10:38 am
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                #12105

                Laura

                Very sorry to hear about your experience.  Sounds like male dominance, even here.  Those guys trolling you cannot bear the idea of a woman having her own sexual desires and freedom.  Treating women like a piece of property in the 21st century.  The real cuckold members here want their women to have that freedom. Hopefully you won’t be put off this site, which is very wholesome. 

              • Anonymous
                  December 30, 2015 at 10:45 am
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                  #12108

                  Laura there are women that want to only have fantasies or lightly dabble in cuckolding all the way to full blown cuckold couple with an integrated Dom or Bull. Doesn’t mean one is better than the other. Just means everyone has to find that glove that fits them. So keep searching I am sure you will find the right Mr cuckold

                • Zach
                    December 30, 2015 at 2:39 pm
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                    #12109

                    I know how you feel Laura still have yet to find my cuckoldress but I know I will eventually! Stay strong! 

                  • hubbyoftheMrs
                      January 7, 2016 at 11:00 pm
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                      #12121

                      Laura, like some of the others have said keep searching, perhaps it might be the way you bring it up, suggesting a threesome and see his reaction, not jump right into your looking for a cuck (A lot of men would love to be one but don’t know how to bring up the topic)Wink

                    • jimboslut
                        February 11, 2016 at 10:21 am
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                        #12175

                        @matmagic99 said:
                        In fact, lara, there are many husbands out here who WISH their wives had more of your attitude.

                        WinkI am one of those husbands……

                      • Anonymous
                          February 12, 2016 at 9:51 am
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                          #12178

                          Helllo Lara:  we chatted briefly last night.  I wish I would have read your first post beforehand.  Sorry to read that you had such a horrible experience here.  I hope everything has gone better since.  As other’s have said, there are many ‘trolls’ here, spurned guys mostly who don’t know how to truly appreciate nor treat a woman, regardless of the kind of relationship they are in.  Ignore them, remember, they are just ‘trolls’, little men hiding in anonymity online.  As for your objective…. there are many men out there who wish they could find a woman to marry who would crave to be in a Cuckold marriage.  Might have to go to larger ‘Adult’ dating sites to find such men.  Converse with some of the women on this site as well, for they may know of a man or two.  I saw you are in the UK, but the availability of suitable partners should not be an issue, whereas I live in the ‘Colonies’, I mean ‘States’ …ha…. there are many here.  Who knows, maybe that guy lives here and would move for you?  t/c   Doc Fev 

                        • Sam
                            February 24, 2016 at 10:16 am
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                            #12215

                            Hi Laura. This is my first ever post on this site. Only joined a few minutes ago. Quite gutted to hear your story. Im a single male who feels like a freak because I am desperate to be in a loving cuckolding relationship with a caring partner. It can be so difficult for people to understand & tbh I probably dont fully understand it either. I find it really sad that you come on a forum and are honest enough to engage with your feelings on this only to be trolled. I would love to find a woman like yourself who is emotionally secure enough to commit to a partner and mature enough to engage with your biological needs. Why is society still repressing women in this way? You are not a freak, but you are in a minority of people who are prepared to be honest. I too was almost in a cuckold relationship but my partner was unable to seperate her physical desire for a particular man with her emotional needs and ultimately she broke up with me prior to sleeping with him. I dont blame her and it’s not a criticism, I think she just didnt want to commit to the emotional and physical attachments that are deemed to be outwith the “norm”. Hope you are ok and please never feel like a freak. I admire your guts and love the fact that you are not prepared to just settle for something less than what you need. If only more women were like you. More power to you. Sam. X

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