Hi everyone, I’m Tom and I’m 32 from the UK.. I live with my girlfriend, who is also 32 and we’ve been together of 15 years. She was my first serious relationship, and I’m her first and only, so far, sexual partner.
For many years, particularly since we started living together around 8 years ago have had desires to share her, and this continues to grow stronger and stronger. She’s a very shy person and is difficult to talk to about this kinda of thing. When I’ve tried she’s taken it as, yeah that’s really hot, but not sure if I could do it
I still of course find her extremly attractive, but I much prefer listening to her using her dildos from downstairs, than involving myself in anything physical with her, which we haven’t done for a while.
I’d love any advice you can give, open to private chats or whatever you are willing. Thank you!