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A-Z,

My wife and I have been involved in the lifestyle for about 18 months. We are white and our primary partner is black. I am average at 6′ and he is about 8.5″ and much thicker. When we started out we met with him a few times before having him to our home, that day our relationship changed as I watched as he had his way wit my wife. We were with him a few times together at first and then we progressed to one on one encounters with the two of them. I found this very exciting and was so turned on by it. The first time my wife recorded the entire encounter on her iPad for me to watch later. The second time was at his place of business and I listened over the phone.

We do have rules in place. There are no interactions between them without my permission. I have and still do encourage her to make “pit stops” on her way home from work. As for jealousy, we really do not have any. I am fine with them interacting and feel she deserves to have those interactions with a much larger endowed male. We have built a relationship/friendship with him as well. We exchange texts and photos and my wife and him do as well.

We have had a few other encounters with a few other black guys as well. She has gotten a Queen of Spades tattoo and wears it proudly. Our only real regret is not doing this sooner. We are both in our mid 40’s. Oh and BTW, this week we start down our road into exploring male chastity.