Reply To: Swingers Shifting in Direction

Last week my wife had to go out of town for a couple of days of business meetings. My schedule was quite flexible that week so I went along with her and we drove. It provided several hours of time together in the car…. to talk.
As we do from time to time, I asked her how her sex life was. It’s a good opportunity to discuss likes, desires, dislikes, ideas, etc. Good news! Her answer was that she “would like MORE!”. I was happy to hear that answer, because it was now her turn to ask me. I said that I stumbled into something lately that really turned me on and I’d like us to try it. She was excited. I explained my feelings from our recent MFM events and my desire to start doing more of that. I explained that as a ‘hotwife’ she could be having sex with lots of guys, while I would watch and perhaps join if she wanted me to. After a bit more explanation she said ..”Why would I NOT go for this?”. We talked a little about her being able to pick her own partners and anything she wants without asking me. She repeated “Why would I NOT?”.
We discussed some potential guys, including the ‘big two’ we met before. I also suggested that some of her ‘old’ BF’s from before we met might be candidates. Her eyebrows went up, she let out a “hmmmmmm…” and she clearly started thinking about a few rematches. We agreed we will start lining up some new partners for her ASAP.