Reply To: Cuckold Couple Training a First Time Couple

I should have said this upfront – but i changed the names to protect discretion. But the story is true.

So, Tim texted me that he spoke to his wife and as I wrote earlier, she did not shame him. But he complained that he felt she was not interested and now what should he do? I had to explain to him that what he “thought” he heard her say and what she actually said are two different things. And the biggest issue for him as a future cuckold is that he can’t put words in his wife’s mouth. He needs to listen to what she actually said and go from there.

As it turns out, his wife did not shame him and never said “no.” That means that she is open to the idea, but as most women, they want more information. A lot of cuckold wannabes have done a lot of research and fantasizing about being cuckolded and its a huge mistake for them to think – the minute they tell their wife – honey i want you to fuck another guy, isn’t that great for you? – that she should jump for joy.

Its really immature and disrespectful to your wife to assume she will jump at the chance to fuck someone else. Its really disrespectful.

So I said to Tim, “She married you because she is in love with you – so she isn’t going to just fuck some dude because your fantasy is to watch her do it. She is a lot smarter than you and she isn’t falling for that trick.”

Tim said “its not a trick.” So I replied “you might not think so, but it says to your wife, honey i love you, but I don’t want to have sex with you anymore.”

And with that statement, Tim stopped arguing. He tried to explain to me that was not the reason that it was the opposite. So I suggested to him that if that were true, how come he hasn’t said that to his wife? Doesnt she deserve to know your thoughts and feelings?

After about an hour of arguing back and forth, he finally agreed that his wife deserved the truth from him.

I told him not to text me until he had a heart to heart with her. It took him 2 days, but he texted me and told me that he told her how he felt and she actually said “I love you and it doesnt matter to me that you are less endowed in the bedroom.”

Tim was frustrated, but i had to reassure him again. She didnt say “no.” His insecurity is a lot to handle and so I continually reinforce that his wife loves him and that she isn’t saying “no.”

The next step is for me to speak with Tina and I told him to let her know that he found a Sex Professor and a real cuckold couple trainer in NY and that he wanted her to speak with me. He did that and we were unable to talk for about a week, but we finally got on the phone and had a conversation. Tina was very nervous and a bit apprehensive about the conversation, but we ended up talking for an hour and she asked all the questions she could think of. She laughed a lot during the call and she felt at ease.

We ended the conversation with her final question, “So what happens now?”

I told her that the next step is to set up a meeting for all 3 of us. I could tell she was nervous, but she said “ok”.

I texted Tim the next day and told him the dates i had available and he set up the meeting.

We met in the middle, which is Jersey and we went to a restaurant. Macaroni Grill actually. We got a table in the corner and we ate and talked and laughed. His wife was nervous at first, but usually within a few minutes most wives get very comfortable with me.

After dinner, we went to our cars and I walked the couple to theirs and I kissed the wife. She embraced and gave me a long deep erotic kiss. I left them with “Tim text me”

(thats all for now, I will finish the story later)