Reply To: Admitting my inferiority to myself

That can be different from person to person. But what my husband did was sit with me after (very bad) sex and told me he had been thinking about our sex lives. He asked me to be honest with him and tell him if I’m satisfied. I had told him in joking ways that he wasn’t doing it for me but this time I was serious and told him his little cock wasn’t doing a thing for me, then I started crying. He hugged me and explained that he understands and always knew it deep down. He told me that he loves me very much and would never want to be without me, then asked me if I would like to have a lover for sex only. I was shocked at first and said “No” and asked if he was hoping I would so he could play with another woman. I was pissed off for sure but he again calmed me down and explained that he never wants to disappoint another woman and laughed, I calmed down and giggled to that as well. I said “ok, so where is this going”? He explained more that he would really like me to be sexually happy and would like to see me have a lover to take care of that. He even offered to help me find someone online. I always had men hitting on me at work (co-workers and customers) and if I wanted to I could agree to meet with one. After about three weeks or more of thinking about it and talking more about it, I decide to give it a try. I met with a man one evening and brought him home, and I told him that my husband was out for the weekend and I was cheating on him. My husband had a camera set up so he could watch from another room he was staying in for the night, to be sure I was safe. We had amazing sex that night and when he left the next morning my husband came to me and said that he was horny all night watching me get laid and hearing me having orgasm after orgasm, and asked me if I wanted to continue seeing him, to which I responded with a resounding YES!! lol. Anyway that was many years ago and many lovers ago, but again you need to feel her out maybe while having sex (as poor as it might be). And while this is going on, talk sexy to her about how hot it would be to see another cock in her hot wet pussy. This kind of talk should get her going and maybe even allow for the discussion to happen. Being that I don’t know her I can’t tell you much more than that. Try reading what others have done on this site and others. You’ll do fine if you take it slow and maybe even slow down how often you have sex with her to make her more more willing to consider sex with another man and eventually turn you into a full cuckold. Let us know how you do.