Reply To: A discussion about cuck mentality

Agreed with all of the above. Every time they meet my brain is still, to this day on high alert, in good ways! I know what they are doing, and I know what they have been doing for years now, and it still turns me on more than ever. Never did move away from the direction of exclusivity between our bull and her. We make out, and we cuddle, and have become more akin to high school sweethearts in terms of our affection. I think my brain has been wired to associate all of my sexual desires to theirs.

Every now and again i get the creeping feeling like we should do something about that. (that is, having sex) but it never feels right. We tried taking breaks in the past, or just forcing it, and it just doesn’t work. We both have become so accustomed to this situation that feels good for everyone. The only time this is a problem, is when I reflect on the expectations of a SO. Which I have learned only serves to hurt myself, or our relationship.

Anyone else end up minimizing your sexual encounters with your SO?
Not saying its good or bad, just curious on takes, and your experiences.

Love hearing everyone’s feedback, I know everyone’s journey is different, but I am grateful to hear that our relationship isn’t something isolated, and others experience it similarly at times.

another year into it! thanks for all the replies btw.