Re: Wife Lacking Confidence

Go out to a club/bar/wherever as a couple but split up there.  She will grow in confidence when men hit her up, buy her drinks, ask her to dance, … If necessary, you can prearrange to have a couple potential suitors be there to make sure she gets plenty of attention.  However, that wouldn’t be best for most as you two should be 100% open to each other on all details for this lifestyle to work without blowing up on you.  If you do have local “cyber” bulls who are interested in pursuing her, she could simply drop into such a public venue to meet them all individually to get a feel for the chemistry and get a self-esteem boost as a bonus.