are there any resources out there for people whose wife chose/imposed the lifestyle?

I love reading the woman’s point of view, these are typically my favorite stories although in my life, I instigated this type of relationship, now if it was reverse!!! Wow, I would not have complained. 

This is a good website of a female guided hotwife/cuckold relationship. 

http://incidentalhotwife.blogspot.com/

It’s an interesting blog in points, but she copied my writing here at least once and posted it as her own. She talks about how their interpretation of the lifestyle doesn’t include ‘humiliation’ but espouses acts and behaviors which inherently require the effect of humbling the husband. *shrug*

*smile* Luvr, so many blogs about this lifestyle or ones like it copy from this website!!! Your blog post are by far more informative than any cuckold or hotwife website. I think I have read boyfriend and family friendly cuckolding over 20x including on this website http://femaleledsociety.blogspot.com/2014/06/cuckolding-facts.html

I have also have read many of your popular ones many times. 

I talk to this with my wife, because she loves and cares about me and does not want to humiliate me or for me to seem hurt. I have explained there is no getting around the humiliation factor, and I actually enjoy it. I mean the fact of her having such powerful orgasms and so many with a much more well hung man is a bit humiliating in itself, just very hot to watch :). or a threesome, slowly turning into a twosome, or turning into the third wheel when out with the wife on a date, even staying home and watching the kids. Personally I think the humiliation factor should be embraced, even if it seems mean it actually makes it more fun and easier on the husband. Also the fact is there is no way around it. 

MJUST214 – A lot of these blogs and Tumblr pages I tend to find in my consistent searches about cuckold and hotwives are mostly just entertaining with some good nuggets found here an there. By far this website has the best information if you read through all of the blog post, you don’t have to agree with all the content but with me I can relate to a lot of it. 

To help me with my roller coaster of emotions I found this audio book helpful, you can read it too. It is mostly about polyamorist relationships but it dives into all kinds of open relationships and why people choose them, or are forced to accept their partner needs more than what the relationship can offer, and that does not have to be bad, in fact it can be very good for relationships and keep them more open, honest and loving.  It is worth a read or a listen. 

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

I’m looking for advice how to have my wife cuckold me when I mention it she kinda gets mad any ideas?

robert10046296 I can only speak for me, I did not come out and tell my wife I wanted her to cuckold me, we actually never even had that conversation until after the fact, I did tell her she would look hot being fucked by another man prior. But for me, I introduced toys, first fairly innocent, very highly reviewed girly toys. She loved them, then I continued to slowly progress until we were using toys that looked like real cocks and felt somewhat like real cocks, then they got bigger, I told her how hot she was, asked her how good it feels being fucked by a big hard cock other than mine.  That went on for a year, maybe more, constant love, she is my queen, no pressure. Then I put her in an environment where she could have fun if she chose, I made it very clear, I would not get upset if she did not play and I would not get upset if she did. I explained we had role-played for a long time, and never was another woman involved in our role-playing, made it clear I had and still have no desire to be with another woman. That was the first night. Months later, maybe over a year another night and it has continued to be a slow progression but in 6 years we have had A LOT of fun in the journey.  With some ups and downs, but 100% positive to our relationship so far.